Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
This weekend is CSS Alumni weekend. So that will keep me occupied Friday and Saturday nights. Saturday there are 2 kids birthday parties to attend. Sunday we get to come up for air, maybe get some work done around the house and or yard.
I am looking forward to the reunion tonight, should be interesting to see who will attend and see if all the increased networking from Facebook has a big influence or not. One big effect it will have though is that there are people I am 'friends' with on Facebook that I might normally never associate with at a reunion. And now I will be interested to see them and interact more because of that increased networking.
On Saturday Daniel has a party to go to in the early afternoon. This will be the first party he attends on his own (I think). So I plan to drop him off, then take the other 2 for a walk, as it is downtown. Should be a nice opportunity for him and change for James to feel like he gets Daddy more or less to himself. Then it is over to our friend Angela's younger sons birthday so over to her house for a barbecue, and then I will cut out early from that to attend the Alumni Dinner.
I don't know what we will do on Sunday, it would be nice to get in another walk/hike. But it will depend on Kim's mood. She may want to have a lazy day instead. If that is the case there are no shortage of little things I can do around the house. Cleaning gutters, ripping off old ones, mowing the weeds/lawn. Again it depends on how we feel in the morning.
NBA Thoughts
Anyone who had any doubt yesterday about Cleveland winning has not been watching the NBA in recent years. In fact I would hazard a guess that both series will (conveniently) go seven games, maximizing ad revenue. Bill Simmons wrote a harsh article about the state of officiating, and he was definitely preaching to the choir as far as I am concerned. I don't want to say there's a conspiracy but it is pretty clear what series would make the NBA the most money in ratings and ad revenue.
Friday, May 29, 2009
Thursday, May 28, 2009
NBA thoughts on a day at home sick
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Daniel interrupted his breakfast by dashing off to the bathroom to throw up. He has been fine since then but I kept him home just in case so I am staying home with all 3 kids as well. Which might be just as well as I am starting to not feel so good either.
I posted some new pictures on Picasa from Kim's trip to the zoo yesterday and Kirk's birthday party last night. It is interesting to watch all of these people age. I have a different perspective as the youngest sibling, who is also married to a younger woman. My kids are playing with my parents great grandkids, and that keeps me feeling young.
NBA Thoughts
I ended up watching most of the second half of the Nuggets-Lakers game, not by choice, there was nothing else worth watching on so Kim kept going back to it. And while the Lakers won I can honestly say it was it was one of the worse NBA games I have watched in a while. I am not sure if it was uneven officiating, poor play or both but it just wasn't much fun to watch. Play was so uneven, and the refs made sure that no team ever got into any rythm, and if it wasn't the refs it was the coaches. All I can say is if I feel like this after my favorite team wins it is a good sign for my objectivity, but not a good sign for the product of NBA 'basketball'.
Daniel interrupted his breakfast by dashing off to the bathroom to throw up. He has been fine since then but I kept him home just in case so I am staying home with all 3 kids as well. Which might be just as well as I am starting to not feel so good either.
I posted some new pictures on Picasa from Kim's trip to the zoo yesterday and Kirk's birthday party last night. It is interesting to watch all of these people age. I have a different perspective as the youngest sibling, who is also married to a younger woman. My kids are playing with my parents great grandkids, and that keeps me feeling young.
NBA Thoughts
I ended up watching most of the second half of the Nuggets-Lakers game, not by choice, there was nothing else worth watching on so Kim kept going back to it. And while the Lakers won I can honestly say it was it was one of the worse NBA games I have watched in a while. I am not sure if it was uneven officiating, poor play or both but it just wasn't much fun to watch. Play was so uneven, and the refs made sure that no team ever got into any rythm, and if it wasn't the refs it was the coaches. All I can say is if I feel like this after my favorite team wins it is a good sign for my objectivity, but not a good sign for the product of NBA 'basketball'.
Wednesday, May 27, 2009
Miscellaneous Wednesday thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Weekend Thoughts
Memorial Day ended up alright, we went over to my niece's house for another family barbecue, which was nice. The kids had a great time. One of the things about being the youngest child in a large family is that when your older siblings have kids at an early age those kids end up being closer in age to you. So my nieces have kids that are roughly the same age as mine. Which throws off James sometimes when I talk about visiting his cousin Liz, because she is just another adult to him, not so much a cousin. So the weekend ended up not being a complete wash (pun intended). We had some fun, even though it wasn't exactly what I planned.
NBA thoughts
I am making tremendous progress in my new approach to the NBA. I think I have watched 1 complete game through the entire playoffs. And I am slowly learning to watch without letting the game get to me. And I am learning when to say stop, and turn the channel. I'm not at the same level as football where I can watch a game and enjoy it, regardless of the outcome. But it is getting there. I have to say I am surprised by the Magic, I did not expect this at all. But it just goes to show how important balance is. Lebron is great, but the rest of his team just isn't up to snuff.
CSS Alumni weekend thoughts
This weekend is the annual Alumni weekend. And I will be attending as usual. Last fall, as more an more people joined Facebook and the connections spread the thinking was that this could only lead to a much bigger turnout. Recently however I am not sure. One of my friends commented that since people have been using Facebook to reconnect that they would be less inclined to show up. I am not sure. I think that people who have connected via Facebook will still want to come to Alumni gatherings as a chance to visit in person. But I could be wrong. We will see soon enough.
Weekend Thoughts
Memorial Day ended up alright, we went over to my niece's house for another family barbecue, which was nice. The kids had a great time. One of the things about being the youngest child in a large family is that when your older siblings have kids at an early age those kids end up being closer in age to you. So my nieces have kids that are roughly the same age as mine. Which throws off James sometimes when I talk about visiting his cousin Liz, because she is just another adult to him, not so much a cousin. So the weekend ended up not being a complete wash (pun intended). We had some fun, even though it wasn't exactly what I planned.
NBA thoughts
I am making tremendous progress in my new approach to the NBA. I think I have watched 1 complete game through the entire playoffs. And I am slowly learning to watch without letting the game get to me. And I am learning when to say stop, and turn the channel. I'm not at the same level as football where I can watch a game and enjoy it, regardless of the outcome. But it is getting there. I have to say I am surprised by the Magic, I did not expect this at all. But it just goes to show how important balance is. Lebron is great, but the rest of his team just isn't up to snuff.
CSS Alumni weekend thoughts
This weekend is the annual Alumni weekend. And I will be attending as usual. Last fall, as more an more people joined Facebook and the connections spread the thinking was that this could only lead to a much bigger turnout. Recently however I am not sure. One of my friends commented that since people have been using Facebook to reconnect that they would be less inclined to show up. I am not sure. I think that people who have connected via Facebook will still want to come to Alumni gatherings as a chance to visit in person. But I could be wrong. We will see soon enough.
Monday, May 25, 2009
What happened yesterday?!
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Wow, what a day! It started off so well. I woke up early, busting with energy, so I went outside in the sun and got all of the outside preparations done: weeding, cleaning etc. Then it was inside for some more cleaning, wrote up a quick blog post, the kids were playing or watching TV. Then I ran up to the store for some last minute essentials (after making sure to sweep and mop, what little did I know). Came home, did a few more last minute prep things, laid Emily down. Then fixed the pasta salad, had a quick snack, cleaned the bathrooms.
Then it started raining, no biggie I thought, I don't need to start cooking until 1, this rain will pass by then right? Dennis & Megan stopped by watched the rain, then went down to Territory Days when it looked like things might lighten up. But the rain did not lighten up, no, not by a long shot.
So I went downstairs, just to check and see if we had any dampness from the rain. I guess it was a good thing I did, because I discovered that the water was pooling along the wall, worst I have seen in several years. And I kind of lost it, I started yelling, cursing, frantically moving furniture. I called Kim to let her know what was going on, she attempted to be the voice of reason, to no avail. I started sucking up water, while telling those people who called that the event was toast, very wet soggy toast.
Kim got home and forced me to calm down as we got the top pool of water sucked up. Then we stopped working on that and I started cooking, yes grilling in the rain:
Kim's family showed up, along with my parents, and eventually my sister Melodie. And we ate an excellent feast. And we played some ladder ball in the driveway because it was the only part of the yard that wasn't covered in mud. Kim got a fire going in the fire pit. And we ended up having a pretty decent time, the kids played in the water and mud, and with the fire, and eventually got to have s'mores. Overall it wasn't a bad event, it could have been much much worse. Once again my in-laws demonstrated their facility with the technique of turning lemons into lemonade.
To everyone who missed it, I am sorry we missed you, although I cannot guarantee you would have had fun. And to those I actually spoke to: sorry if I sounded a little harried or short, I was pretty stressed out. And we will have more barbecues this coming summer (because our lawn will need the rain hee hee).
Wow, what a day! It started off so well. I woke up early, busting with energy, so I went outside in the sun and got all of the outside preparations done: weeding, cleaning etc. Then it was inside for some more cleaning, wrote up a quick blog post, the kids were playing or watching TV. Then I ran up to the store for some last minute essentials (after making sure to sweep and mop, what little did I know). Came home, did a few more last minute prep things, laid Emily down. Then fixed the pasta salad, had a quick snack, cleaned the bathrooms.
Then it started raining, no biggie I thought, I don't need to start cooking until 1, this rain will pass by then right? Dennis & Megan stopped by watched the rain, then went down to Territory Days when it looked like things might lighten up. But the rain did not lighten up, no, not by a long shot.
So I went downstairs, just to check and see if we had any dampness from the rain. I guess it was a good thing I did, because I discovered that the water was pooling along the wall, worst I have seen in several years. And I kind of lost it, I started yelling, cursing, frantically moving furniture. I called Kim to let her know what was going on, she attempted to be the voice of reason, to no avail. I started sucking up water, while telling those people who called that the event was toast, very wet soggy toast.
Kim got home and forced me to calm down as we got the top pool of water sucked up. Then we stopped working on that and I started cooking, yes grilling in the rain:
Kim's family showed up, along with my parents, and eventually my sister Melodie. And we ate an excellent feast. And we played some ladder ball in the driveway because it was the only part of the yard that wasn't covered in mud. Kim got a fire going in the fire pit. And we ended up having a pretty decent time, the kids played in the water and mud, and with the fire, and eventually got to have s'mores. Overall it wasn't a bad event, it could have been much much worse. Once again my in-laws demonstrated their facility with the technique of turning lemons into lemonade.
To everyone who missed it, I am sorry we missed you, although I cannot guarantee you would have had fun. And to those I actually spoke to: sorry if I sounded a little harried or short, I was pretty stressed out. And we will have more barbecues this coming summer (because our lawn will need the rain hee hee).
Sunday, May 24, 2009
Some quickie thoughts and new Pix
New deck and gazebo
Nice green lawnWe had a good anniversary. I just grilled up some steaks, baked some potatoes and made a salad, basically the same meal we could have had a restaurant (only much better) for less than half the price. I went and picked up a new camera (to replace the one that accidentally got killed). This morning is about prep for party.
Here is a shot of the new quasi-deck and gazebo, plus a shot of the green upper lawn. Nice eh?
I still have to finish clearing the kids play area, chapping down some weeds etc. Then clear the porch. Then there's a little cleaning inside and we should be ready. It sounds like we should have a good turn out after all, plenty of people to have fun with and kids to run around with. I am looking forward to it (and now I can take pictures again, yay!).
I do want to take a moment to reflect on those who are no longer with us, who departed this mortal coil in the last year. My thoughts today turn to Uncle Randy and Manny. Today's party will not be the same without Manny, and there will be times when I think of him, expecting him to pull up and throw down the gauntlet on whatever game we are playing, from ladder ball to cards to pool. But that is part of what this weekend is about for me, thinking of and memorializing those who are no longer with us. So when the party gets going in earnest I will pause a moment to reflect and think about their spirits and know they are somewhere, throwing back some beers and laughing at all the crazy people and kids.
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Happy Anniversary
Beautiful Kim & EmilyEleven years ago at approximately the same time as it is now I was waking up alone in our apartment. I got up, showered & shaved and got dressed. Looked at myself in the mirror for the last time as a single man. And then picked up my Tux and drove off to the church to get married. And I never looked back, because, as I have been know to say: I was making the best choice for the single best thing that ever happened to me. I love my children, they are wonderful and fun, and I love them dearly. But I didn't choose them, I chose Kim.
I cannot believe it's been 11 years already. That morning seems like it was just yesterday in many ways. We both have grown and changed, we've been through some good times and bad. And yet for all my fantastic memory, I really cannot remember what day to day life was like as a single man, without Kim in my life. She truly is the best part of my life.
We are an inseparable team at this point, we know each others moods, we compliment each other in so many ways. We do projects big and small with joy and fun. We handle our parenting responsibilities jointly, always there to back each other up. For all that and so much more I cannot put into words I say:
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE,
MY GOOFY GIRL,
LOVELY KIMMY
Friday, May 22, 2009
Weekend plans
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
It's a 3 day weekend and school is out for the boys! Yahoo! Unfortunately Kim has to work every day, thanks to the wonderful seniority system for schedule picking. We are planning on having a barbecue on Sunday which means Saturday will be a day of yard work for me. Monday we might walk down to Territory days, just to get out of the house for a while, we'll see.
I was a little late in planning the barbecue, so I won't get the attendance that I had hoped. My goal is to make this an annual event for us, inviting not just family but friends as well. My goal was to have an event of our own, Forrest has Spam-O-Rama and the Halloween Party I want to have a similar annual event that people look forward to and talk about. I also wanted to have an event on Memorial Day weekend that in some sense commemorates those people who are no longer with us. Which means more to me this year with the passing of Randy and Manny. I was really touched last year by everyone taking the time in Missouri to go to the family plot for an informal Memorial service and thought we needed something similar here. I don't intend to do anything at the actual gathering, I think that it is enough that people can all come together and have fun.
The yard work is mainly just mowing and weeding and general clean up in the yard. Kim has very diligently gotten the inside of the house pretty much cleared for action (yay for her!). So there isn't much to work on other than some little stuff.
We used to make it a point to go to Territory Days every year. But that practice has declined and when we missed it entirely last year due to being in Missouri we really didn't miss it. So it's not real high on our list of priorities as far as things to get out and do this weekend.
Quickie NBA thoughts
It's going to be an exciting Conference Championship round. I still think Cleveland will win out. It's nice to not feel any pressure in the Denver-LA series. I want LA to win, but it's no big deal to me if they lose out to the hometown team as it were. And it would certainly be an interesting series to see Carmelo and Lebron matched up. The nice thing is that so far all of the game have been good competitive games, high quality NBA basketball. It makes it much easier to watch.
It's a 3 day weekend and school is out for the boys! Yahoo! Unfortunately Kim has to work every day, thanks to the wonderful seniority system for schedule picking. We are planning on having a barbecue on Sunday which means Saturday will be a day of yard work for me. Monday we might walk down to Territory days, just to get out of the house for a while, we'll see.
I was a little late in planning the barbecue, so I won't get the attendance that I had hoped. My goal is to make this an annual event for us, inviting not just family but friends as well. My goal was to have an event of our own, Forrest has Spam-O-Rama and the Halloween Party I want to have a similar annual event that people look forward to and talk about. I also wanted to have an event on Memorial Day weekend that in some sense commemorates those people who are no longer with us. Which means more to me this year with the passing of Randy and Manny. I was really touched last year by everyone taking the time in Missouri to go to the family plot for an informal Memorial service and thought we needed something similar here. I don't intend to do anything at the actual gathering, I think that it is enough that people can all come together and have fun.
The yard work is mainly just mowing and weeding and general clean up in the yard. Kim has very diligently gotten the inside of the house pretty much cleared for action (yay for her!). So there isn't much to work on other than some little stuff.
We used to make it a point to go to Territory Days every year. But that practice has declined and when we missed it entirely last year due to being in Missouri we really didn't miss it. So it's not real high on our list of priorities as far as things to get out and do this weekend.
Quickie NBA thoughts
It's going to be an exciting Conference Championship round. I still think Cleveland will win out. It's nice to not feel any pressure in the Denver-LA series. I want LA to win, but it's no big deal to me if they lose out to the hometown team as it were. And it would certainly be an interesting series to see Carmelo and Lebron matched up. The nice thing is that so far all of the game have been good competitive games, high quality NBA basketball. It makes it much easier to watch.
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Quick thoughts on a Wednesday
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
1. This economy is like the death of a thousand cuts. First I had the furloughs: 3 weeks off over 3 months, using my vacation pay. Second, we have the threat of a strike/work stoppage for Kim (thanks for sticking up for the worker, oops, I meant corporations, Governor Ritter, jerk). And now this week I got the announcement at work that all employees are getting a pay reduction. We are still okay for now, but if there is a strike/work stoppage and it lasts much more than a month there could be a problem.
2. I sent out invites for the barbecue this coming weekend and not getting a lot of responses other than people declining the invitation. For those who have responded thank you for doing so. If you have not responded please do so so I can get an idea how many people to expect.
3. NBA: well I watched the end of the third and all of the fourth quarter last night and I was pleased to see a good competitive game. Not a blow out for either team, and the refs didn't control the game too much. It's always a good thing to see a game turn at the end because some team makes some good defensive plays, not just because one star starts getting all the calls. I think this could turn out to be a very good series, the Nuggets were definitely ready for the Lakers.
4. School is almost over for the boys, which means life will change up a little next week, due to monetary concerns James may not get to spend as much time at the Boy & Girls Club. But other than that the summer plans for the kids still stays. James is very ready for the break, and so is Daniel.
1. This economy is like the death of a thousand cuts. First I had the furloughs: 3 weeks off over 3 months, using my vacation pay. Second, we have the threat of a strike/work stoppage for Kim (thanks for sticking up for the worker, oops, I meant corporations, Governor Ritter, jerk). And now this week I got the announcement at work that all employees are getting a pay reduction. We are still okay for now, but if there is a strike/work stoppage and it lasts much more than a month there could be a problem.
2. I sent out invites for the barbecue this coming weekend and not getting a lot of responses other than people declining the invitation. For those who have responded thank you for doing so. If you have not responded please do so so I can get an idea how many people to expect.
3. NBA: well I watched the end of the third and all of the fourth quarter last night and I was pleased to see a good competitive game. Not a blow out for either team, and the refs didn't control the game too much. It's always a good thing to see a game turn at the end because some team makes some good defensive plays, not just because one star starts getting all the calls. I think this could turn out to be a very good series, the Nuggets were definitely ready for the Lakers.
4. School is almost over for the boys, which means life will change up a little next week, due to monetary concerns James may not get to spend as much time at the Boy & Girls Club. But other than that the summer plans for the kids still stays. James is very ready for the break, and so is Daniel.
Tuesday, May 19, 2009
Tell Scholastic to go back to selling books only
I just took action on this issue and thought you might be interested too:
http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/621/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=26599
For many of us, Scholastic's in-school book clubs -- the monthly flyers distributed in classrooms -- played an important role in our childhood by providing the opportunity to purchase low-cost, high-quality literature.
But something has changed. Scholastic's book clubs have become a Trojan horse for marketing toys, trinkets, and electronic media—many of which promote popular brands. A review of Scholastic's elementary and middle school book clubs by the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood found that one-third of the items for sale are either not books or are books packaged with other items such as jewelry and toys. Items sold by Scholastic in 2008 included the M&M's Kart Racing Wii videogame, the Princess Room Alarm, the Monopoly® SpongeBob SquarePants™ Edition computer game, lip gloss and a Hannah Montana bracelet.
Please take a moment to visit http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/621/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=26599 and tell Scholastic to start selling books – and only books – in their in-school book clubs.
http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/621/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=26599
For many of us, Scholastic's in-school book clubs -- the monthly flyers distributed in classrooms -- played an important role in our childhood by providing the opportunity to purchase low-cost, high-quality literature.
But something has changed. Scholastic's book clubs have become a Trojan horse for marketing toys, trinkets, and electronic media—many of which promote popular brands. A review of Scholastic's elementary and middle school book clubs by the Campaign for a Commercial-Free Childhood found that one-third of the items for sale are either not books or are books packaged with other items such as jewelry and toys. Items sold by Scholastic in 2008 included the M&M's Kart Racing Wii videogame, the Princess Room Alarm, the Monopoly® SpongeBob SquarePants™ Edition computer game, lip gloss and a Hannah Montana bracelet.
Please take a moment to visit http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/621/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=26599 and tell Scholastic to start selling books – and only books – in their in-school book clubs.
Monday, May 18, 2009
Working weekend
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
After the fun of Friday and Saturday morning it was nose to the grindstone time. Kim & I managed to clear out the old garden/current trash and misc. gathering pile area and turn it into a nice patio extension with gazebo. It wasn't easy, and took a lot of work, but I am pleased with the results. And I can't wait to show off the results next weekend.
Friday was a fun day, what with the down adventure, and then the family barbecue. And Saturday morning was casual up until time for soccer. Then the last soccer game of the spring for James. All in all the boys didn't have much cause for complaint as far as having fun with family.
But on Saturday morning I woke up determined to finally get that section of our back yard cleaned up, leveled and covered. So when we got home from soccer and I laid Emily down for her nap, I got to work. And when Kim got home from work she changed and got to work with me. Saturday was about picking up, digging and moving the concrete. We cheated a little by just putting it in the corner behind the shed, which gets it out of sight and mind, and should discourage kids from running around back there as well. Then we leveled the dirt out (more or less) and finished the cinder block wall that I started several months back. Leaving us exhausted and sore Saturday night.
Sunday we got up, ran to the store, where we had some pretty poor behavior on the part of Emily & Daniel. Then went over to Connie's and got the deck materials from her yard (special thanks to Dad and Dustin for helping us transport the materials in their trucks). Then we set about building the gazebo (which was surprisingly easy, it's not the sturdiest item in the world). Deciding where we wanted it and staking it down. Then we started just laying the deck planks on the ground. It was a lot of work, requiring a lot of trimming with the saw, and some creative geometry. But the finished work was very pleasing. We now have a nice covered extension of the patio that can view both the driveway and back yard. It was a lot of work, we were both exhausted again Sunday night, but I am feeling very pleased with the finished product.
Now we can gear up for this last week of the school year, and make plans for the weekend. Kim has to work every day unfortunately. But her schedule still allows us to have an afternoon barbecue, so that is our plan for Sunday. I will send out an Evite invitation later today for that event.
After the fun of Friday and Saturday morning it was nose to the grindstone time. Kim & I managed to clear out the old garden/current trash and misc. gathering pile area and turn it into a nice patio extension with gazebo. It wasn't easy, and took a lot of work, but I am pleased with the results. And I can't wait to show off the results next weekend.
Friday was a fun day, what with the down adventure, and then the family barbecue. And Saturday morning was casual up until time for soccer. Then the last soccer game of the spring for James. All in all the boys didn't have much cause for complaint as far as having fun with family.
But on Saturday morning I woke up determined to finally get that section of our back yard cleaned up, leveled and covered. So when we got home from soccer and I laid Emily down for her nap, I got to work. And when Kim got home from work she changed and got to work with me. Saturday was about picking up, digging and moving the concrete. We cheated a little by just putting it in the corner behind the shed, which gets it out of sight and mind, and should discourage kids from running around back there as well. Then we leveled the dirt out (more or less) and finished the cinder block wall that I started several months back. Leaving us exhausted and sore Saturday night.
Sunday we got up, ran to the store, where we had some pretty poor behavior on the part of Emily & Daniel. Then went over to Connie's and got the deck materials from her yard (special thanks to Dad and Dustin for helping us transport the materials in their trucks). Then we set about building the gazebo (which was surprisingly easy, it's not the sturdiest item in the world). Deciding where we wanted it and staking it down. Then we started just laying the deck planks on the ground. It was a lot of work, requiring a lot of trimming with the saw, and some creative geometry. But the finished work was very pleasing. We now have a nice covered extension of the patio that can view both the driveway and back yard. It was a lot of work, we were both exhausted again Sunday night, but I am feeling very pleased with the finished product.
Now we can gear up for this last week of the school year, and make plans for the weekend. Kim has to work every day unfortunately. But her schedule still allows us to have an afternoon barbecue, so that is our plan for Sunday. I will send out an Evite invitation later today for that event.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Recap of adventure + Family event
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
The grand adventure went well. We didn't do everything we could have, but it was a good time. Lots of exercise for the kids, and they enjoyed riding the bus. I had forgotten that one of the nice thing about riding the bus is that you can talk face to face, because someone else if doing the talking and the seats are arranged better. James even asked if he could take the bus alone some time, which I assured him he could.
I picked up some breezy fiction at the library, I have been so focused on nonfiction for a while that I wanted something not quite so serious. James got another Star Wars book that I am going to encourage him to read on his own, even if it is above his level. One thing the teach said in the conference is that James needs to practice reading, both aloud and in general. I already have a plan with Dad in place for some practice with him, and then we will make some read out loud time a habit at bedtimes as well.
Thursday night Kim mentioned that we were going to host a barbecue last night for Danny since he is returning to Texas this weekend. So the initial plan was for a relatively small family get together, like Tuesday night at Dennis'. By yesterday afternoon that had grown to the point that I think we 4 extra kids, 6 extra adults plus some other folks who popped in for some short visiting time. But we just took it in stride, I had a lot of fun with the grill, rotating different meats, adjusting temps etc. It was the first big test of the new grill I got last year and it passed with flying colors. We even got to have a fire in out metal fire pit, which pleased James to no end.
I would have had lots of pictures of the day, but our camera got accidentally destroyed by being run through the washer (don't ask how, suffice to say it was an accident). So that will be our anniversary present to ourselves: new camera.
Today will be a more relaxed day, just James' soccer on the docket (which of course means it is raining and cold). No other plans for the rest of the weekend. Next weekend is our Anniversary, Memorial Day and another 3 day weekend for me. So we plan to have another barbecue next Sunday. This one will be more friend oriented, I plan to send out invites this weekend. That's all for now, checking out until Monday.
The grand adventure went well. We didn't do everything we could have, but it was a good time. Lots of exercise for the kids, and they enjoyed riding the bus. I had forgotten that one of the nice thing about riding the bus is that you can talk face to face, because someone else if doing the talking and the seats are arranged better. James even asked if he could take the bus alone some time, which I assured him he could.
I picked up some breezy fiction at the library, I have been so focused on nonfiction for a while that I wanted something not quite so serious. James got another Star Wars book that I am going to encourage him to read on his own, even if it is above his level. One thing the teach said in the conference is that James needs to practice reading, both aloud and in general. I already have a plan with Dad in place for some practice with him, and then we will make some read out loud time a habit at bedtimes as well.
Thursday night Kim mentioned that we were going to host a barbecue last night for Danny since he is returning to Texas this weekend. So the initial plan was for a relatively small family get together, like Tuesday night at Dennis'. By yesterday afternoon that had grown to the point that I think we 4 extra kids, 6 extra adults plus some other folks who popped in for some short visiting time. But we just took it in stride, I had a lot of fun with the grill, rotating different meats, adjusting temps etc. It was the first big test of the new grill I got last year and it passed with flying colors. We even got to have a fire in out metal fire pit, which pleased James to no end.
I would have had lots of pictures of the day, but our camera got accidentally destroyed by being run through the washer (don't ask how, suffice to say it was an accident). So that will be our anniversary present to ourselves: new camera.
Today will be a more relaxed day, just James' soccer on the docket (which of course means it is raining and cold). No other plans for the rest of the weekend. Next weekend is our Anniversary, Memorial Day and another 3 day weekend for me. So we plan to have another barbecue next Sunday. This one will be more friend oriented, I plan to send out invites this weekend. That's all for now, checking out until Monday.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
A grand adventure
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
This coming Friday is a day off for me & the kids. So I scheduled James' parent teacher conference first thing in the morning. After that I plan to take the kids on an adventure. I plan to take them on a city bus ride downtown. Then wander around downtown, go to the park, the library, the game store etc.
My idea is to clear the kids camera's then challenge James to take a picture of each new thing we do that day. So that he is forced to really think about what we are doing and where he is. I want him to realize that some of what we are doing is new, and to appreciate it.
I want to show him how the bus works, not that I plan to put him on the bus this year, but I plan to make it a semi-regular thing so that by the time he is old enough to go off on his own he knows how to use it. I was talking with my mom last night and we were trying to recall at what age I was doing things on my own. It was different for me admittedly because I was the youngest and I can recall Dave & Dan taking me downtown on the bus, so I wasn't alone. Although when you think about it that would have been a pre-teen taking 2 younger kids on a bus ride with no parental supervision, which is pretty cool and free range on it's own.
Quickie NBA thoughts
Hurray for the Nuggets, glad to see them advance, and it's a good thing to cheer for Chauncey for once (couldn't do it when he played for the Pistons, just couldn't). I don't know if I can keep myself away from watching a Nuggets-Lakers series though.
Again though I think it is a moot point, I still think Cleveland and the Lebrons will win it all. And to be honest, watching the Cavs, I wouldn't mind. I like Lebron, and he seems to bring a joy to the game that we haven't seen in a while. I love the Lakers as a franchise, but this team and Kobe are hard to like.
This coming Friday is a day off for me & the kids. So I scheduled James' parent teacher conference first thing in the morning. After that I plan to take the kids on an adventure. I plan to take them on a city bus ride downtown. Then wander around downtown, go to the park, the library, the game store etc.
My idea is to clear the kids camera's then challenge James to take a picture of each new thing we do that day. So that he is forced to really think about what we are doing and where he is. I want him to realize that some of what we are doing is new, and to appreciate it.
I want to show him how the bus works, not that I plan to put him on the bus this year, but I plan to make it a semi-regular thing so that by the time he is old enough to go off on his own he knows how to use it. I was talking with my mom last night and we were trying to recall at what age I was doing things on my own. It was different for me admittedly because I was the youngest and I can recall Dave & Dan taking me downtown on the bus, so I wasn't alone. Although when you think about it that would have been a pre-teen taking 2 younger kids on a bus ride with no parental supervision, which is pretty cool and free range on it's own.
Quickie NBA thoughts
Hurray for the Nuggets, glad to see them advance, and it's a good thing to cheer for Chauncey for once (couldn't do it when he played for the Pistons, just couldn't). I don't know if I can keep myself away from watching a Nuggets-Lakers series though.
Again though I think it is a moot point, I still think Cleveland and the Lebrons will win it all. And to be honest, watching the Cavs, I wouldn't mind. I like Lebron, and he seems to bring a joy to the game that we haven't seen in a while. I love the Lakers as a franchise, but this team and Kobe are hard to like.
Fun night + thoughts on language
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Last night we had a family barbecue at Dennis' house for Danny's birthday, before he heads back to Texas. It was a good time, played some ladder ball (I really need to practice and redevelop a technique because right now I am playing horribly). I also played a little pick up touch football with the kids: Austin & Dillon vs. Me, James, Chyanne, Daniel & Brandon. That was fun, got to introduce the little guys to some of the concepts. Including a chance to use one of Dad's favorite plays where everybody lines up in a line behind center. I am really looking forward to teaching the kids games like this.
Language
Recently James has been testing his limits on language. Using words like 'crap' and phrases like 'piss it off'. This is an optimal chance for me to test out some of my own ideas on this subject. As a fan of early Punk Rock and Rap etc. I firmly believe that words just can't hurt anyone. And take a pretty liberal approach to what I listen to in the car etc. But I also keep a pretty firm hand on my own language. I do that for 2 reasons: avoiding verbal laziness and out of respect for others who might be offended by what I say.
Given these parameters I had the chance to sit James down and explain what is acceptable and what isn't. I chose to take the simple approach of explaining that words like this are not used out of politeness and respect. I made it clear to him that there are no 'bad words'. There are just words that we don't use out of respect for others and politeness. Now I just need to keep reinforcing this and teach him different things to say: like 'tick it off' instead of 'piss it off' or 'crud' instead of 'crap'.
I think that if you take the approach that certain words are wrong or bad you are setting yourself up for failure as a parent. Because children will test limits, it's what they do as part of growing up. And if you make things forbidden then they will test themselves by doing those things. Obviously this doesn't apply to everything. But it does fit with our standard approach of explaining what is acceptable and what isn't and focusing on teaching rather than punishment.
There is however on word and concept that I have been working to train myself on. And that is Hate. The other day Daniel made the comment that he 'hates that game'. And I realized that this is something I want to avoid and need to work on. I need to work on not using the word hate, when all I mean is dislike. Because I don't want my kids to grow up thinking it is okay to hate anything. Hate is never productive or useful or fit for a civilized society. It's such a simple word, and it is hard to avoid it. But it is another very important part of teaching by example for the kids.
We'll see how it goes, and of course it is also going to be up to them to resist the influence of other kids. But I think we are doing a pretty darn good job so far of teaching the boys how to resist that pull.
Last night we had a family barbecue at Dennis' house for Danny's birthday, before he heads back to Texas. It was a good time, played some ladder ball (I really need to practice and redevelop a technique because right now I am playing horribly). I also played a little pick up touch football with the kids: Austin & Dillon vs. Me, James, Chyanne, Daniel & Brandon. That was fun, got to introduce the little guys to some of the concepts. Including a chance to use one of Dad's favorite plays where everybody lines up in a line behind center. I am really looking forward to teaching the kids games like this.
Language
Recently James has been testing his limits on language. Using words like 'crap' and phrases like 'piss it off'. This is an optimal chance for me to test out some of my own ideas on this subject. As a fan of early Punk Rock and Rap etc. I firmly believe that words just can't hurt anyone. And take a pretty liberal approach to what I listen to in the car etc. But I also keep a pretty firm hand on my own language. I do that for 2 reasons: avoiding verbal laziness and out of respect for others who might be offended by what I say.
Given these parameters I had the chance to sit James down and explain what is acceptable and what isn't. I chose to take the simple approach of explaining that words like this are not used out of politeness and respect. I made it clear to him that there are no 'bad words'. There are just words that we don't use out of respect for others and politeness. Now I just need to keep reinforcing this and teach him different things to say: like 'tick it off' instead of 'piss it off' or 'crud' instead of 'crap'.
I think that if you take the approach that certain words are wrong or bad you are setting yourself up for failure as a parent. Because children will test limits, it's what they do as part of growing up. And if you make things forbidden then they will test themselves by doing those things. Obviously this doesn't apply to everything. But it does fit with our standard approach of explaining what is acceptable and what isn't and focusing on teaching rather than punishment.
There is however on word and concept that I have been working to train myself on. And that is Hate. The other day Daniel made the comment that he 'hates that game'. And I realized that this is something I want to avoid and need to work on. I need to work on not using the word hate, when all I mean is dislike. Because I don't want my kids to grow up thinking it is okay to hate anything. Hate is never productive or useful or fit for a civilized society. It's such a simple word, and it is hard to avoid it. But it is another very important part of teaching by example for the kids.
We'll see how it goes, and of course it is also going to be up to them to resist the influence of other kids. But I think we are doing a pretty darn good job so far of teaching the boys how to resist that pull.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Thoughts on Free Range
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
So I borrowed the book from the Library last week and ran through it in a couple of days. I was really impressed with it. I knew a lot of what was in it because I have been following the blog for quite a while. But it was still quite good, and had some great tips and ideas in it. And now Kim is reading it as well. We are already pretty much on the same page on this but I think it is important that we both embrace what we can.
The thing that struck me though was this: the kids that I know that are the most 'Free Range' of all are Tammy's kids. The hard part of this is that there is a fine line between consciously making an effort to teach your kids responsibility and independence versus being irresponsible and having no control. Tammy's kids are all very independent, and range all over the neighborhood, with Austin being the epitome of the free kid who leaves in the morning and comes home when it's dark. But the kids are also poorly disciplined, wreak havoc wherever they go, and don't listen well to any adults.
So I want to teach my kids independence and the fun that comes with independence. But the one point that isn't addressed is the need to balance that with teaching them that with that independence comes a level of responsibility. Being responsible enough to not terrorize other kids and show respect for any adults they come in contact with. And being responsible enough to clean up the messes they might (make that will) make and admit when they did something wrong.
We are working hard on that responsibility already. It's not easy, James does tend to space the little things. But I think that by the end of the summer we will have laid the necessary groundwork that comes with this. The interesting part of that teaching is that it also allows James to lead by example for Daniel and Emily, and also provides some incentive for Daniel to start learning these things now as opposed to later.
One of the little things I want to show James early on this summer is how to use and take the bus. Not so much for him to go off on his own yet, but to lay the groundwork. And I can combine that with some walking and exercise for myself.
So I borrowed the book from the Library last week and ran through it in a couple of days. I was really impressed with it. I knew a lot of what was in it because I have been following the blog for quite a while. But it was still quite good, and had some great tips and ideas in it. And now Kim is reading it as well. We are already pretty much on the same page on this but I think it is important that we both embrace what we can.
The thing that struck me though was this: the kids that I know that are the most 'Free Range' of all are Tammy's kids. The hard part of this is that there is a fine line between consciously making an effort to teach your kids responsibility and independence versus being irresponsible and having no control. Tammy's kids are all very independent, and range all over the neighborhood, with Austin being the epitome of the free kid who leaves in the morning and comes home when it's dark. But the kids are also poorly disciplined, wreak havoc wherever they go, and don't listen well to any adults.
So I want to teach my kids independence and the fun that comes with independence. But the one point that isn't addressed is the need to balance that with teaching them that with that independence comes a level of responsibility. Being responsible enough to not terrorize other kids and show respect for any adults they come in contact with. And being responsible enough to clean up the messes they might (make that will) make and admit when they did something wrong.
We are working hard on that responsibility already. It's not easy, James does tend to space the little things. But I think that by the end of the summer we will have laid the necessary groundwork that comes with this. The interesting part of that teaching is that it also allows James to lead by example for Daniel and Emily, and also provides some incentive for Daniel to start learning these things now as opposed to later.
One of the little things I want to show James early on this summer is how to use and take the bus. Not so much for him to go off on his own yet, but to lay the groundwork. And I can combine that with some walking and exercise for myself.
Monday, May 11, 2009
Weekend Recap
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
We had a good weekend, although it was pretty long for me. Highlighted by going to Star Trek and the amazing Nuggets win for me. Mothers Day brunch went well, I was pleased with the meal, and everything got eaten (always a good sign). We gt the new dog pen built for Connie. And Kim is having fun visiting with her Dad.
Star Trek was awesome! I really enjoyed it. I highly recommend it for any fan of the series, especially the original series and cast. I wrote a more detailed review on FreeRangeGeek.
I ended up watching pretty much the entire Nuggets game while Kim was off with her Dad. It was not what you would call a super game from a purist perspective. But it was hard fought, NBA playoff basketball the way it should be played. And the end was just odd enough that it was remarkably fun. I didn't watch either Laker game, and I don't feel like I missed that much. At this point I almost think a Nuggets-Cav's series would be more fun to watch and better for the NBA. It's always fun to have that guarantee of a new champion.
I got up early on Sunday and ended up coking for almost 3 hours straight, but it was well worth it. Everything got eaten, there were not left overs. And everyone enjoyed their meals. And all the Mom's seemed pleased with their cards and the occasion. Thanks to Dave & Tia for bringing the fruit salad and the muffins and to Mom for her Apple crunch.
After we waited out the rain and played a few games at our house it was over to Connie's to get some work in. We managed to put together a good solid fence for her and moved the dogs. It was a good time for the kids. I think everyone was pleased with the effort and accomplishment. Now Connie can put the dogs in and out without having to pass by that spot every night. We are making progress bit by bit in her house. Next will be the back porch.
Overall though a good weekend, although the weather gods were not entirely with us. But we persevered, got done what we wanted to get done. And had a lot of fun in the mean time.
We had a good weekend, although it was pretty long for me. Highlighted by going to Star Trek and the amazing Nuggets win for me. Mothers Day brunch went well, I was pleased with the meal, and everything got eaten (always a good sign). We gt the new dog pen built for Connie. And Kim is having fun visiting with her Dad.
Star Trek was awesome! I really enjoyed it. I highly recommend it for any fan of the series, especially the original series and cast. I wrote a more detailed review on FreeRangeGeek.
I ended up watching pretty much the entire Nuggets game while Kim was off with her Dad. It was not what you would call a super game from a purist perspective. But it was hard fought, NBA playoff basketball the way it should be played. And the end was just odd enough that it was remarkably fun. I didn't watch either Laker game, and I don't feel like I missed that much. At this point I almost think a Nuggets-Cav's series would be more fun to watch and better for the NBA. It's always fun to have that guarantee of a new champion.
I got up early on Sunday and ended up coking for almost 3 hours straight, but it was well worth it. Everything got eaten, there were not left overs. And everyone enjoyed their meals. And all the Mom's seemed pleased with their cards and the occasion. Thanks to Dave & Tia for bringing the fruit salad and the muffins and to Mom for her Apple crunch.
After we waited out the rain and played a few games at our house it was over to Connie's to get some work in. We managed to put together a good solid fence for her and moved the dogs. It was a good time for the kids. I think everyone was pleased with the effort and accomplishment. Now Connie can put the dogs in and out without having to pass by that spot every night. We are making progress bit by bit in her house. Next will be the back porch.
Overall though a good weekend, although the weather gods were not entirely with us. But we persevered, got done what we wanted to get done. And had a lot of fun in the mean time.
Friday, May 8, 2009
Weekend Plans
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Should be an interesting (and hopefully fun) weekend. I think I have a game tonight (although I haven't heard anything so it might not happen). Tomorrow is just soccer with James. Then it's home to clean the house for Sunday. Sunday we will be hosting a brunch at our house for Mother's day. And then we will give our manual labor and organizing prowess to Connie in the afternoon with a project at her house. Of course this weekend we get the added bonus of Danny coming up for a visit.
If I don't have a game tonight I might just go see Star Trek on my own. We were supposed to play but I haven't heard anything so we shall see.
Saturday I want to get the house cleaned up so it is nice for the brunch. The biggest thing we will be doing for that is to roll up the carpet in our dining room. It has just gotten too used up over the years, and since we now eat practically every meal in there it will be much easier to be able to just sweep the mess up than try & vacuum.
I decided to host a brunch for Mothers Day so we don't have to deal with the kids at a restaurant, plus it saves money. And this way we can serve what we want. Then our plan is to help get Connie's back porch completely cleaned off and then organized a la Clean Sweep. We had a long talk yesterday and that is the next step she wants to take in slowly getting her house where she wants it.
Danny decided to come up for a visit this week on the spur of the moment. So he should get in tonight. Which means he will be here this weekend and get the chance to spend some time with his grand kids, which should be fun. He hasn't been up here since Emily was born. James & Daniel are pretty excited about it.
So a busy weekend, not much relaxing. But with the union and King Soopers playing a game of chicken it will be nice to have lots of distractions. Because there is nothing else we can do at this point other than wait.
Should be an interesting (and hopefully fun) weekend. I think I have a game tonight (although I haven't heard anything so it might not happen). Tomorrow is just soccer with James. Then it's home to clean the house for Sunday. Sunday we will be hosting a brunch at our house for Mother's day. And then we will give our manual labor and organizing prowess to Connie in the afternoon with a project at her house. Of course this weekend we get the added bonus of Danny coming up for a visit.
If I don't have a game tonight I might just go see Star Trek on my own. We were supposed to play but I haven't heard anything so we shall see.
Saturday I want to get the house cleaned up so it is nice for the brunch. The biggest thing we will be doing for that is to roll up the carpet in our dining room. It has just gotten too used up over the years, and since we now eat practically every meal in there it will be much easier to be able to just sweep the mess up than try & vacuum.
I decided to host a brunch for Mothers Day so we don't have to deal with the kids at a restaurant, plus it saves money. And this way we can serve what we want. Then our plan is to help get Connie's back porch completely cleaned off and then organized a la Clean Sweep. We had a long talk yesterday and that is the next step she wants to take in slowly getting her house where she wants it.
Danny decided to come up for a visit this week on the spur of the moment. So he should get in tonight. Which means he will be here this weekend and get the chance to spend some time with his grand kids, which should be fun. He hasn't been up here since Emily was born. James & Daniel are pretty excited about it.
So a busy weekend, not much relaxing. But with the union and King Soopers playing a game of chicken it will be nice to have lots of distractions. Because there is nothing else we can do at this point other than wait.
Tuesday, May 5, 2009
Ups & Downs
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
So today at lunch I drove to the Ute Valley park to see how the walk was there and how long it would take, was it a feasible lunch plan? And I was quite pleased with the result. I easily made it there and back, maybe 10 minute drive at most. And I was able to complete a circuit in about 30 minutes that had me feeling like I had had a good workout. And it was far nicer than just walking around the block here at work. So I was quite pleased with this and plan to make it a regular every other day activity. Plus the hike is nice enough that we could take the kids on a Sunday and it would be pretty cool for them, lots of rocks to climb on etc. (although apparently it does have some rattle snakes in plenty so would have to be careful with the kids.)
The down of course is the ever increasing likelihood of a strike/lockout. The more I read on it I understand why the union leadership is doing it. They have been offered a bad contract, plain and simple. But that support won't pay the bills. So I have to continue to hope for an agreement, and if not, that at least the disagreement is short. Who knows, we are as ready as we can be I guess so it is just a matter of waiting.
I know the Celtics and Lakers lost last night, which kind of evens things out. And I had to exercise some serious control to not watch the Laker game last night. But I still think I am winning the battle against the addiction and emotional turmoil. I have been able to read about it today and not get bent out of shape. I don't think I could watch a Laker game with the same control though, so I will keep that at arms length for now.
So today at lunch I drove to the Ute Valley park to see how the walk was there and how long it would take, was it a feasible lunch plan? And I was quite pleased with the result. I easily made it there and back, maybe 10 minute drive at most. And I was able to complete a circuit in about 30 minutes that had me feeling like I had had a good workout. And it was far nicer than just walking around the block here at work. So I was quite pleased with this and plan to make it a regular every other day activity. Plus the hike is nice enough that we could take the kids on a Sunday and it would be pretty cool for them, lots of rocks to climb on etc. (although apparently it does have some rattle snakes in plenty so would have to be careful with the kids.)
The down of course is the ever increasing likelihood of a strike/lockout. The more I read on it I understand why the union leadership is doing it. They have been offered a bad contract, plain and simple. But that support won't pay the bills. So I have to continue to hope for an agreement, and if not, that at least the disagreement is short. Who knows, we are as ready as we can be I guess so it is just a matter of waiting.
I know the Celtics and Lakers lost last night, which kind of evens things out. And I had to exercise some serious control to not watch the Laker game last night. But I still think I am winning the battle against the addiction and emotional turmoil. I have been able to read about it today and not get bent out of shape. I don't think I could watch a Laker game with the same control though, so I will keep that at arms length for now.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Weekend Recap
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
We did it, more or less, we defied the weather gods attempts to ruin the weekend. We managed to survive a wet, cold soccer game, make a quick trip to Bargain Comics and got in a decent little hike. We also got the house picked up, got in some shopping, and enjoyed a couple of movies. And I watched some NBA basketball, much to my chagrin.
James' soccer game went quite well, the team played with a lot of hustle. James got pretty cold initially, but he played well, including a quarter as keeper. Daniel had his last swim lesson for a while. He really enjoys the swim lessons, and he is making progress, but he wants to play baseball and we can't do both. This works out for me because it gives me a break for the next 2 weeks.
We made a brief visit to Bargain comics for free comic book day. Got to see some members of the 501st Legion, Rocky Mountain Garrison. Picked up some comic books. Would have spent more time down there but the weather kept the time to a minimum.
Sunday we got in a shopping trip (concentrated on necessities and non-perishables in case a strike happens.) Then did some cleaning around the house. Then we went out for a hike. We stopped at the White Acres Open House event, but ended up driving up the Cheyenne Canyon and hiking up Helen Hunt Falls. Which was a short but pretty vigorous little hike. Tomorrow I plan to try and go over to Ute Valley on my lunch break and get in hike there on lunch. We'll see how that goes.
So I watched a little more than a half of the Bulls-Celtics game on Saturday night. And while my attitude might have been a little different if I was a Celtics fan the bottom line is my feeling about the NBA was confirmed. That is it just isn't that fun to watch any more. And certain stars just get to do whatever they want, either they get fouled or get the shot. Which is why I firmly believe that this title is the Cleveland Cavaliers to lose, because at some point LeBron James will start to get every call. It's just such a star driven league now, it's not really pure basketball. College and Olympic basketball are just better games to watch.
We did it, more or less, we defied the weather gods attempts to ruin the weekend. We managed to survive a wet, cold soccer game, make a quick trip to Bargain Comics and got in a decent little hike. We also got the house picked up, got in some shopping, and enjoyed a couple of movies. And I watched some NBA basketball, much to my chagrin.
James' soccer game went quite well, the team played with a lot of hustle. James got pretty cold initially, but he played well, including a quarter as keeper. Daniel had his last swim lesson for a while. He really enjoys the swim lessons, and he is making progress, but he wants to play baseball and we can't do both. This works out for me because it gives me a break for the next 2 weeks.
We made a brief visit to Bargain comics for free comic book day. Got to see some members of the 501st Legion, Rocky Mountain Garrison. Picked up some comic books. Would have spent more time down there but the weather kept the time to a minimum.
Sunday we got in a shopping trip (concentrated on necessities and non-perishables in case a strike happens.) Then did some cleaning around the house. Then we went out for a hike. We stopped at the White Acres Open House event, but ended up driving up the Cheyenne Canyon and hiking up Helen Hunt Falls. Which was a short but pretty vigorous little hike. Tomorrow I plan to try and go over to Ute Valley on my lunch break and get in hike there on lunch. We'll see how that goes.
So I watched a little more than a half of the Bulls-Celtics game on Saturday night. And while my attitude might have been a little different if I was a Celtics fan the bottom line is my feeling about the NBA was confirmed. That is it just isn't that fun to watch any more. And certain stars just get to do whatever they want, either they get fouled or get the shot. Which is why I firmly believe that this title is the Cleveland Cavaliers to lose, because at some point LeBron James will start to get every call. It's just such a star driven league now, it's not really pure basketball. College and Olympic basketball are just better games to watch.
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Weekend thoughts, design comments
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
Well the weather gods are apparently conspiring agin me. I had hoped for a fun day spent walking around downtown as we wandered from Y to soccer to lunch to store to library. But noooo! Instead it will be a day of bundling kids in car, drive 2 blocks, watch soccer, bundle kids in car, drive 2 blocks to eat, bundle kids in car, drive to parking lot, then walk to comic book store, etc. Stoopid rain and cold! But we will endeavor to persevere, we will improvise, adapt and overcome!
So I changed the blog design again and wanted to make some comments:
1. This new design actually allows for some more columns so I can spread out many of the things I have on there, which is the reason I changed to it (thanks to Maida for sending me the link to the templates)
2. I plan to keep the picture of Manny on there pretty much permanently as up till now he is the closest person to me to die (aside from grandparents) so this is my way of memorializing him.
3. There is a small link for my tweets on the left hand side, I am not real happy with this gadget but it is all blogger has for now. If you really want to follow me you can @frontrangegeek.
4. I lost my quotes when I was tinkering with the design changes, but decided to leave them off for now to keep the page uncluttered.
5. The slide show gadget changed back to just one album on Picasa for now. But if you click on a picture it will take you to my Picasa picture anyway.
6. I have added a shared items link, when an article comes up in Google Reader if I want to share it it will appear here, so you can get an idea of news that has caught my eye.
7. I still need to add a following/links gadget, but that keeps changing as some of the people's sites that I follow have pretty much died. But that is coming.
That's all the comments for now, feel free to share your feedback with me.
Well the weather gods are apparently conspiring agin me. I had hoped for a fun day spent walking around downtown as we wandered from Y to soccer to lunch to store to library. But noooo! Instead it will be a day of bundling kids in car, drive 2 blocks, watch soccer, bundle kids in car, drive 2 blocks to eat, bundle kids in car, drive to parking lot, then walk to comic book store, etc. Stoopid rain and cold! But we will endeavor to persevere, we will improvise, adapt and overcome!
So I changed the blog design again and wanted to make some comments:
1. This new design actually allows for some more columns so I can spread out many of the things I have on there, which is the reason I changed to it (thanks to Maida for sending me the link to the templates)
2. I plan to keep the picture of Manny on there pretty much permanently as up till now he is the closest person to me to die (aside from grandparents) so this is my way of memorializing him.
3. There is a small link for my tweets on the left hand side, I am not real happy with this gadget but it is all blogger has for now. If you really want to follow me you can @frontrangegeek.
4. I lost my quotes when I was tinkering with the design changes, but decided to leave them off for now to keep the page uncluttered.
5. The slide show gadget changed back to just one album on Picasa for now. But if you click on a picture it will take you to my Picasa picture anyway.
6. I have added a shared items link, when an article comes up in Google Reader if I want to share it it will appear here, so you can get an idea of news that has caught my eye.
7. I still need to add a following/links gadget, but that keeps changing as some of the people's sites that I follow have pretty much died. But that is coming.
That's all the comments for now, feel free to share your feedback with me.
Friday, May 1, 2009
Weekend plans + rant
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
I woke up this morning feeling good, rested. Got up, showered, shaved etc. The boys had already eaten so I had time to relax, fix and eat breakfast. As I sat there reading the paper I came across this article. And as I realized the implications my mood pretty much went to hell. Soldiering on with everything. But circumstances are conspiring against me.
I still plan to spend Saturday downtown, we just might have to do a little slogging through the rain instead of enjoying a nice sunny walk. But I still plan to go to the comic book store. And I still plan on going to the library.
Sunday plans might be a little different. Instead of doing some yard work we will probably focus on the house, maybe get the basement and pantry cleaned out. We do have a plan to make a big grocery trip. And we might buy a few more groceries than normal with the future a little uncertain.
Which brings me back to my rant. The fact that any corporation is choosing to play hardball with their employees in today's economy just pisses me off. Of course I am just as irate about the fact that the Union apparently isn't budging either. So we are faced with the very real possibility of a strike happening. And I'll be honest, we can't really afford a strike right now. And I imagine we are not the only ones in that position. I guess we might save on child care costs, but that doesn't pay the mortgage. I guess we'll get a better idea of where things stand this time next week. Until then we just have to trudge on and hope it all works out.
I woke up this morning feeling good, rested. Got up, showered, shaved etc. The boys had already eaten so I had time to relax, fix and eat breakfast. As I sat there reading the paper I came across this article. And as I realized the implications my mood pretty much went to hell. Soldiering on with everything. But circumstances are conspiring against me.
I still plan to spend Saturday downtown, we just might have to do a little slogging through the rain instead of enjoying a nice sunny walk. But I still plan to go to the comic book store. And I still plan on going to the library.
Sunday plans might be a little different. Instead of doing some yard work we will probably focus on the house, maybe get the basement and pantry cleaned out. We do have a plan to make a big grocery trip. And we might buy a few more groceries than normal with the future a little uncertain.
Which brings me back to my rant. The fact that any corporation is choosing to play hardball with their employees in today's economy just pisses me off. Of course I am just as irate about the fact that the Union apparently isn't budging either. So we are faced with the very real possibility of a strike happening. And I'll be honest, we can't really afford a strike right now. And I imagine we are not the only ones in that position. I guess we might save on child care costs, but that doesn't pay the mortgage. I guess we'll get a better idea of where things stand this time next week. Until then we just have to trudge on and hope it all works out.
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