If it's not one thing...

It's another. So we had a good weekend, had an excellent game Friday night. Then the boys games went well Saturday morning. James had a good hit, and a couple of put outs at first base. Then nothing real exciting the rest of the day, we spent most of the time huddled in the nice cool basement. No the real excitement came first with a low key announcement on Friday, apparently Tammy had gone out at some point in the last couple of weeks and gotten married. I wouldn't even have known if she hadn't mentioned something to Kim & Connie on Friday. The thing that really got to me about it was the low key kind of mildly disgusted reaction of Kim & Connie. I would have thought that they would have reacted strongly, but at this point they are so tired of dealing with all of Tammy's crap, that nothing really surprises them any more. Really their strongest reaction was 'hurray, now someone else can deal with her'. The thing that really has everyone in the know really ticked off is that she hasn't told her kids yet, even though Jay is living with them. Which is definitely not good, and so incredibly selfish I was flabbergasted.

Well on top of that, Austin's birthday was last week, and as of Saturday Tammy still hadn't done anything yet. So I decided that we would host a party for him on Sunday at our house. Tammy did eventually show up after work, and was there for the cake and presents, but there were no thanks, no offers of help, nothing. And I think about what kind of party he would have had if we hadn't said and done something.

I guess at this point I shouldn't be surprised or disgusted, but every time I think she has reached a new low, she goes right out and tops it. I guess the only positive here is that school is coming and so soon we won't have to deal with her and the kids at all.

FYI, since she hasn't made any big announcements yet I am assuming she wants to continue to keep it quiet, but she and Jay are wearing matching wedding rings. And since my disgust is so high, I just don't care that much about how she feels about keeping it quiet. The truth will out as they say, so while I am not shouting from the roof tops, I will not hide this series of events either.