Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Most of the posts I have seen on Facebook and even an article in the paper today all have the sense of good riddance 2009, bad year, etc. And I just don't feel that way. Sure there were some bad things: employment worries for me during furloughs, pay cuts, layoffs. Kim's labor agreement worries took up a big chunk of the year. And those 2 things combined to keep us from taking any major vacations or making any huge changes. But here we are and I think we are better off now than we were a year ago, and like they always say: 'what doesn't kill you makes you stronger'. And that's my view of this past year.
The family lost a good friend and family member in Manny this year. And there have been a lot of trials and tribulations, and some legal troubles. And that coupled with the economic woes have certainly cast a large shadow over the year.
On the positive side we made some adjustments in our personal lives, refinanced our house and learned how to better our spending habits. And as a result we find our economic positions improving. I would be remiss to not give a big huge, super gigantic thanks to Mom and Dad for helping out with the finances of child care so Daniel and Emily could be in preschool and Day care respectively. Thank you so very much for your help and assistance.
James had a banner year. Learned to ride a bike, read, gained independence, caught his first fly ball in baseball, made new friends, built lots of Lego. He just grows so fast and matures so fast some times it is a joy and a wonder to behold.
Daniel also grew by leaps and bounds. He has blossomed to an extent in his second year of preschool. His speech has improved, and it is clear that there is some deep thought going on in there some where. He enjoyed T-ball and soccer this year, although he clearly does not possess the same competitive streak that James has.
Emily continues to grow into my wonderful little princess. Her verbal skills have improved with the time in Day Care, and she is a joy every day. Of course she is 2 now and starting to hone those terrible two skills, with some truly wondrous fits, but that's just par for the course.
We added a new addition to the family in Spotty the puppy around Thanksgiving. This is the first true puppy I have had. So that means I have the opportunity to learn and apply my problem solving skills to puppy training, which is a new experience. But it has been fun for the whole family, and I look forward to the continued fun as we all learn about each other and develop.
Kim was her usual industrious self, building a solid niche at King Soopers, making herself indispensable through hard work and applied intelligence and common sense. We enjoyed some more outdoor activities over the summer, and finished some big projects around the house. My love for her and joy in our time together grows every year as well.
My attempts at weight reduction and improved fitness had some starts and stops, and misdirections. But I have gotten a better handle on things now, and hope to see that continue into the new year. I continued to read voraciously, with trips to the library every 2 to 3 weeks. My attempts to find hobby time have not been so successful, but teaching James to play Magic bodes well for future interests. Of course my role playing group has continued on, although we have not played as often as in years past due to the vagaries of life and scheduling.
Looking back at all that, it really was a good year. So many good things happened to us that we can't say it was all that bad. And on that note we can really look forward to the New Year, because if we can have such a good year when the world around us was seemingly falling apart then imagine what our lives will be like when the rest of the country catches up to us!
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
What am I reading this week?
Title: Death masks : a novel of the Dresden files
Author: Jim Butcher
Synopsis: Harry Dresden, Chicago's only practicing wizard, is hired by a mysterious priest to find the stolen Shroud of Turin. But first, Harry must deal with the Red Court of Vampires' champion, professional hit men, and the return of his semi-vampire former girlfriend.
Why do I like it?
I got turned on to this series about a year ago, there are several books in this series. The best description is Phillip Marlowe meets Lord of the Rings. Harry Dresden is a practicing Wizard with all of the commensurate abilities etc. who works as a Private Investigator in Modern Day Chicago. Right away it has a few things that are in my wheelhouse interest wise: detectives, noir feel, Magic in a fantasy sense. Very cool series. And one of the better things about is that you can more or less pick up any book in the series and read it without feeling like you missed something without reading the earlier ones.
This one is pretty interesting so far, I haven't had a lot reading time recently so I am not exactly zipping through it. It pretty much fits in the overall feel and formula, with the usual supporting cast. But I'm not so deep into it that I can really say if it is better or worse than other books in the series.
I would recommend this series to anyone who likes detective novels, but is willing to cope with the inherently bizarre concepts surrounding the main character wielding magic and casting spells. Honestly, most of it reads just about like any other classic pulp detective novel, with plot twists, a protagonist who keeps getting beaten up as he slowly unravels the case(s). It just so happens this protagonist uses magic, instead of a gun, and his adversaries are often supernatural instead of petty criminals.
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Author: Jim Butcher
Synopsis: Harry Dresden, Chicago's only practicing wizard, is hired by a mysterious priest to find the stolen Shroud of Turin. But first, Harry must deal with the Red Court of Vampires' champion, professional hit men, and the return of his semi-vampire former girlfriend.
Why do I like it?
I got turned on to this series about a year ago, there are several books in this series. The best description is Phillip Marlowe meets Lord of the Rings. Harry Dresden is a practicing Wizard with all of the commensurate abilities etc. who works as a Private Investigator in Modern Day Chicago. Right away it has a few things that are in my wheelhouse interest wise: detectives, noir feel, Magic in a fantasy sense. Very cool series. And one of the better things about is that you can more or less pick up any book in the series and read it without feeling like you missed something without reading the earlier ones.
This one is pretty interesting so far, I haven't had a lot reading time recently so I am not exactly zipping through it. It pretty much fits in the overall feel and formula, with the usual supporting cast. But I'm not so deep into it that I can really say if it is better or worse than other books in the series.
I would recommend this series to anyone who likes detective novels, but is willing to cope with the inherently bizarre concepts surrounding the main character wielding magic and casting spells. Honestly, most of it reads just about like any other classic pulp detective novel, with plot twists, a protagonist who keeps getting beaten up as he slowly unravels the case(s). It just so happens this protagonist uses magic, instead of a gun, and his adversaries are often supernatural instead of petty criminals.
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Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Post Holiday Recap
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Sorry for the radio silence of the past week, it's just with so much going on, and my being home for 6 days I didn't take the time to write. I don't much like to write from home, as my desk setup isn't very ergonomic. We all had a good Christmas though. The kids got a lot of what they wanted, and what they didn't get they were able to buy with some post Christmas shopping (except for James desire for this Lego Set). Everyone seemed to have a good time at both of our gatherings, and we had a nice time at Dad's for my families short Christmas Eve gathering. I was able to avoid overindulging in televised football or bad foods (or at least to some extent). So this week we are easing back into the swing of things, not really settling into the real pattern for another 2 weeks though.
Christmas
First, I want to thank everyone for their good wishes and gifts. They are all greatly appreciated and enjoyed. And I will also say the same on behalf of the rest of the family. It was an emotional Christmas as it was the first without Manny, and there were a few teary eyed moments. But for the most part it was a nice, warm holiday, and the kids really enjoyed themselves, with all of that time with the parents.
Spotty
So we got another book on training the puppy and after taking the time to look at it we have a different outlook on what to do and how to train her. The first part is the housebreaking which I think we can get a better handle on once we establish a more concrete schedule. The second part is as much about training the kids how to deal with the puppy. Teaching Daniel and Emily to sit still when the puppy initially jumps on them, in order to get her to not take nips. And teaching all 3 of the kids to limit how they play and roughhouse with her, in order to avoid bad habits. Like I told the vet yesterday it is not just about training the puppy, it is training us as well.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. Keeping their eyes on the prize that is the #1 pick in the draft. Of course they could blow that by beating the 49ers this week and having the Lions upset Chicago. And wouldn't it just be the perfect capper on this season for them to lose out on the pick to the Lions because that was one of the only 2 teams they beat?
Denver Broncos
It's hard to put a finger on what has happened to this team this year. I think it really boils down to talent, or lack of it. The quarterback is efficient but not inspiring, the offensive line is not very good at run blocking, the defensive line has trouble against power run games. I don't think it is coaching, although the offensive game plan could be more imaginative as far as getting the best players on the field the whole game. So if they finish at .500 for the season in retrospect I should be happy considering my expectations for the season in August. I am sure that even if they do make the playoffs it will be a 1 and done post season. So in that context it might almost be better to lose this week, except for the fact that they don't own their 1st round draft pick.
Sorry for the radio silence of the past week, it's just with so much going on, and my being home for 6 days I didn't take the time to write. I don't much like to write from home, as my desk setup isn't very ergonomic. We all had a good Christmas though. The kids got a lot of what they wanted, and what they didn't get they were able to buy with some post Christmas shopping (except for James desire for this Lego Set). Everyone seemed to have a good time at both of our gatherings, and we had a nice time at Dad's for my families short Christmas Eve gathering. I was able to avoid overindulging in televised football or bad foods (or at least to some extent). So this week we are easing back into the swing of things, not really settling into the real pattern for another 2 weeks though.
Christmas
First, I want to thank everyone for their good wishes and gifts. They are all greatly appreciated and enjoyed. And I will also say the same on behalf of the rest of the family. It was an emotional Christmas as it was the first without Manny, and there were a few teary eyed moments. But for the most part it was a nice, warm holiday, and the kids really enjoyed themselves, with all of that time with the parents.
Spotty
So we got another book on training the puppy and after taking the time to look at it we have a different outlook on what to do and how to train her. The first part is the housebreaking which I think we can get a better handle on once we establish a more concrete schedule. The second part is as much about training the kids how to deal with the puppy. Teaching Daniel and Emily to sit still when the puppy initially jumps on them, in order to get her to not take nips. And teaching all 3 of the kids to limit how they play and roughhouse with her, in order to avoid bad habits. Like I told the vet yesterday it is not just about training the puppy, it is training us as well.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. Keeping their eyes on the prize that is the #1 pick in the draft. Of course they could blow that by beating the 49ers this week and having the Lions upset Chicago. And wouldn't it just be the perfect capper on this season for them to lose out on the pick to the Lions because that was one of the only 2 teams they beat?
Denver Broncos
It's hard to put a finger on what has happened to this team this year. I think it really boils down to talent, or lack of it. The quarterback is efficient but not inspiring, the offensive line is not very good at run blocking, the defensive line has trouble against power run games. I don't think it is coaching, although the offensive game plan could be more imaginative as far as getting the best players on the field the whole game. So if they finish at .500 for the season in retrospect I should be happy considering my expectations for the season in August. I am sure that even if they do make the playoffs it will be a 1 and done post season. So in that context it might almost be better to lose this week, except for the fact that they don't own their 1st round draft pick.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Tuesday Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Wheel of Time
Finished the book this weekend. I have to admit I enjoyed it, and I wasn't sure if I would. I slipped right back into the characters with very little trouble. I think Sanderson did a remarkable job of maintaining the whole tone of the writing, it reads just like the other 11 books. The nice part is that it appears to be building to an actual climax, slowly (very slowly in some cases) but surely. The only real draw back is now I have to wait for the next book to be released! I am now looking forward to the next books so this series can finally finish.
Labor News
It appears that Kim at least is finally safe from lock out/strike. The Kings workers accepted the contract offer, although the Safeway workers did not. As far as I can tell that means the Kings workers will keep working. Which is a huge huge weight off our shoulders, the last thing we want the week before Christmas was a lockout.
Flickr
So I added an account on Flickr this week. It's another picture site, like Picasa. I'm not dropping Picasa, I will primarily use this one for non-family pictures, projects etc. Picasa will be where I continue to post family pictures. My Flickr account is FreeRangeGeek for those who want to add it. I will add a link on here to that site as well, so people can continue to jump around from this location.
New Project
So Kim & I have been puzzling on how to arrange the living room for Christmas. Where do we put the tree? Can we rearrange any of the furniture? So last night I was struck with an idea? Couldn't we just swap the sectional from the basement for the upstairs couches? We measured it out and it did work. So we just went ahead and did it: moving 4 couches (one of them a hide-a-bed) and 1 chair. The basement isn't organized yet, but the living room is at least semi-done. And I for one like the new configuration. We'll see how it all comes together with the tree and all.
Wheel of Time
Finished the book this weekend. I have to admit I enjoyed it, and I wasn't sure if I would. I slipped right back into the characters with very little trouble. I think Sanderson did a remarkable job of maintaining the whole tone of the writing, it reads just like the other 11 books. The nice part is that it appears to be building to an actual climax, slowly (very slowly in some cases) but surely. The only real draw back is now I have to wait for the next book to be released! I am now looking forward to the next books so this series can finally finish.
Labor News
It appears that Kim at least is finally safe from lock out/strike. The Kings workers accepted the contract offer, although the Safeway workers did not. As far as I can tell that means the Kings workers will keep working. Which is a huge huge weight off our shoulders, the last thing we want the week before Christmas was a lockout.
Flickr
So I added an account on Flickr this week. It's another picture site, like Picasa. I'm not dropping Picasa, I will primarily use this one for non-family pictures, projects etc. Picasa will be where I continue to post family pictures. My Flickr account is FreeRangeGeek for those who want to add it. I will add a link on here to that site as well, so people can continue to jump around from this location.
New Project
So Kim & I have been puzzling on how to arrange the living room for Christmas. Where do we put the tree? Can we rearrange any of the furniture? So last night I was struck with an idea? Couldn't we just swap the sectional from the basement for the upstairs couches? We measured it out and it did work. So we just went ahead and did it: moving 4 couches (one of them a hide-a-bed) and 1 chair. The basement isn't organized yet, but the living room is at least semi-done. And I for one like the new configuration. We'll see how it all comes together with the tree and all.
Monday, December 14, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
All in all a good weekend. Had a quiet Saturday with the kids after a nice breakfast with my mom and cousin's family. Sunday was quite busy, cleaning the house, then big family gathering, which went quite well. Football was a mixed bag, but I survived.
Daddy Hours
Well, despite the quiet time didn't do as much as I might have liked. It's just hard to zero in on Daniel when James is there. James and I did get a couple of games of Magic in, he is quite taken with the game and was building decks like crazy. I almost think that I need to change things up, maybe get Daniel away from the house for our time together. We'll see, just need to keep working on it.
Family gathering
Kim's family has a nice tradition of getting together and baking Christmas cookies and treats. That was what we did yesterday (conveniently spanning the Broncos & Cowboys games). It was a good time, with Kim & Megan doing most of the work with the cookies. The kids generally enjoy the chance to make and decorate the cookies. And despite Emily fighting some bug that had her throwing up multiple time Saturday night and Sunday morning everything else went well.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. The Rams continued to zero in with laser like focus on getting the first pick in the draft next year. Where hopefully they will either get that franchise quarterback or yet another defensive prospect.
Denver Broncos
Well the defense probably started a little too loose in the first quarter. But after spotting the Colts a 21 point lead they played quite well the rest of the way. And put a decent scare into the best team in the AFC. I was wrong in thinking that a Wide Out could carry his team to victory, despite having a record setting game, here's hoping that was the kind of performance that gives him the contract extension he deserves.
And the Chargers showed their talent and mental toughness in winning a game on the road, and securing the division. Which means the Broncos are destined for a wild card slot in the playoffs. Which is as good as we could have expected coming into the season to be honest. And with the Bears falling apart, the Broncos should have a good draft coming up, allowing them to continue their arc upwards.
Health
So I have missed out on my daily walks, what with taking lunches at home to let the dog out. But the side benefit is that I have been more disciplined in my eating habits. So as a result I had to cut another notch in my belt this morning, and continue to slowly drop weight. I am hoping to change things up come January as far as taking the dog for actual walks, and maybe carving a space out for the Total gym and start using that again. The overall goal of improved health and fitness is still there.
All in all a good weekend. Had a quiet Saturday with the kids after a nice breakfast with my mom and cousin's family. Sunday was quite busy, cleaning the house, then big family gathering, which went quite well. Football was a mixed bag, but I survived.
Daddy Hours
Well, despite the quiet time didn't do as much as I might have liked. It's just hard to zero in on Daniel when James is there. James and I did get a couple of games of Magic in, he is quite taken with the game and was building decks like crazy. I almost think that I need to change things up, maybe get Daniel away from the house for our time together. We'll see, just need to keep working on it.
Family gathering
Kim's family has a nice tradition of getting together and baking Christmas cookies and treats. That was what we did yesterday (conveniently spanning the Broncos & Cowboys games). It was a good time, with Kim & Megan doing most of the work with the cookies. The kids generally enjoy the chance to make and decorate the cookies. And despite Emily fighting some bug that had her throwing up multiple time Saturday night and Sunday morning everything else went well.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. The Rams continued to zero in with laser like focus on getting the first pick in the draft next year. Where hopefully they will either get that franchise quarterback or yet another defensive prospect.
Denver Broncos
Well the defense probably started a little too loose in the first quarter. But after spotting the Colts a 21 point lead they played quite well the rest of the way. And put a decent scare into the best team in the AFC. I was wrong in thinking that a Wide Out could carry his team to victory, despite having a record setting game, here's hoping that was the kind of performance that gives him the contract extension he deserves.
And the Chargers showed their talent and mental toughness in winning a game on the road, and securing the division. Which means the Broncos are destined for a wild card slot in the playoffs. Which is as good as we could have expected coming into the season to be honest. And with the Bears falling apart, the Broncos should have a good draft coming up, allowing them to continue their arc upwards.
Health
So I have missed out on my daily walks, what with taking lunches at home to let the dog out. But the side benefit is that I have been more disciplined in my eating habits. So as a result I had to cut another notch in my belt this morning, and continue to slowly drop weight. I am hoping to change things up come January as far as taking the dog for actual walks, and maybe carving a space out for the Total gym and start using that again. The overall goal of improved health and fitness is still there.
Friday, December 11, 2009
Weekend Plans + Football Friday
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
You can tell it is getting close to the holidays because the weekends are filling up at a rapid pace. Saturday we are having lunch with some relatives, Sunday is the big family holiday baking day. Next weekend is a birthday party, then holiday party (if we can combine them). Then of course all of the planning etc. that comes with getting ready for the holiday. Might make it a little tougher to get in my Daddy Hours. Of course along with the holidays comes the winding down of the football season, which I am ready for this year.
Daddy Hours
Last week I introduced a new game, this week I will probably return to Magic, just to minimize setup time and teaching time. The after Christmas maybe take a little more time to work on some new games.
Goggle Wave
So I got my invite and actually got to use it a little this week and am impressed by the potential for the tool. I can see it has real potential for people who are all wired to the internet and want to have a kind of virtual meeting or party. We are trying to get it implemented as a tool here at work, plus I am trying to get some old friends to get on it so we can have a virtual reunion. And I thought it would be an absolutely fabulous tool for running a fantasy football draft. It's not like Facebook, something you can just set up and only drop in from time to time, or twitter, it is something that requires dedicated online time to utilize, but if you have a far flung group of people or people tied to their desks, but they want to to do something collaborative and have access to the Net it is a very cool tool.
Wheel of Time
So I started reading this series a long time ago, like 19 years ago in fact. And it had reached it's 11th book when the original author passed away. And I was admittedly frustrated with the direction at that point as it appeared that there would be no end in sight. So when the new book came out, with the plan for 2 more to finish up the series I had mixed emotions. I was ready to not like it. Which is why I got it from the library instead of purchasing it. But dammit all I am really liking it, it is like putting on an old, comfortable shoe that you hadn't worn for a while. Which of course means I will want to read the other 2 (and wait for them, hoping the new writer does not die too), and eventually own the books, ugh, reading a fiction series should not be this overwhelming and hard work.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S. O. S. R. no expectations of victory this week, expectations of the other team running up major points and yards. Is it draft time yet?
Denver Broncos
The Broncos can really play loose and tough this week. No one expects them to win a road game against the Colts. And in order to have a chance at the upset they just need to approach the game with a more 'Devil may care' than usual, throw caution to the wind. I think it is possible for them to win, but I have no expectation of victory, I just want them to make it competitive and not lose it, make the Colts and Manning work for the victory.
You can tell it is getting close to the holidays because the weekends are filling up at a rapid pace. Saturday we are having lunch with some relatives, Sunday is the big family holiday baking day. Next weekend is a birthday party, then holiday party (if we can combine them). Then of course all of the planning etc. that comes with getting ready for the holiday. Might make it a little tougher to get in my Daddy Hours. Of course along with the holidays comes the winding down of the football season, which I am ready for this year.
Daddy Hours
Last week I introduced a new game, this week I will probably return to Magic, just to minimize setup time and teaching time. The after Christmas maybe take a little more time to work on some new games.
Goggle Wave
So I got my invite and actually got to use it a little this week and am impressed by the potential for the tool. I can see it has real potential for people who are all wired to the internet and want to have a kind of virtual meeting or party. We are trying to get it implemented as a tool here at work, plus I am trying to get some old friends to get on it so we can have a virtual reunion. And I thought it would be an absolutely fabulous tool for running a fantasy football draft. It's not like Facebook, something you can just set up and only drop in from time to time, or twitter, it is something that requires dedicated online time to utilize, but if you have a far flung group of people or people tied to their desks, but they want to to do something collaborative and have access to the Net it is a very cool tool.
Wheel of Time
So I started reading this series a long time ago, like 19 years ago in fact. And it had reached it's 11th book when the original author passed away. And I was admittedly frustrated with the direction at that point as it appeared that there would be no end in sight. So when the new book came out, with the plan for 2 more to finish up the series I had mixed emotions. I was ready to not like it. Which is why I got it from the library instead of purchasing it. But dammit all I am really liking it, it is like putting on an old, comfortable shoe that you hadn't worn for a while. Which of course means I will want to read the other 2 (and wait for them, hoping the new writer does not die too), and eventually own the books, ugh, reading a fiction series should not be this overwhelming and hard work.
Football
St. Louis Rams
S. O. S. R. no expectations of victory this week, expectations of the other team running up major points and yards. Is it draft time yet?
Denver Broncos
The Broncos can really play loose and tough this week. No one expects them to win a road game against the Colts. And in order to have a chance at the upset they just need to approach the game with a more 'Devil may care' than usual, throw caution to the wind. I think it is possible for them to win, but I have no expectation of victory, I just want them to make it competitive and not lose it, make the Colts and Manning work for the victory.
Monday, December 7, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
It was a good, albeit quiet weekend, with the family spending most of the time quietly inside due to the weather. My change to the media habits went over alright, with me having the most challenges to be honest. It was a mostly good football weekend.
Changing Habits
Kim was receptive to the idea of changing the family viewing habits, reducing TV and video game time. And we actually did alright for large chunks of the weekend. Saturday we (the boys & I) held on until about 1:00, at which point I sent the boys downstairs to watch cartoons while I watched football. But in the morning we played some games, they all played with the puppy outdoors (enjoying the brief moments of nice weather). Sunday afternoon We all took a break for a little while while I read and the kids played. So it was a nice change, I look forward to more time like it.
Daddy Hours
I opened up my game teaching time to both boys, until Daniel grew bored. I taught James a new game, one of my quasi-football board games. It was fun, it's a pretty basic game, and James got the hang of it pretty quick. I just had the inspiration that I could probably do a miniature game session with both boys over the holiday break and both of them might enjoy pushing some guys around the board more. Daniel is just not cerebral yet, he needs that tactile "these are my guys" approach to games. So that might be more fun for him. We'll see how it goes.
Football
College Football
Well I was mildly disappointed in Florida's loss to Alabama. I really like and admire Tebow and was hoping for him to have another big game on the big stage. That being said, there is no doubt in my mind that the best college football player in America is Suh from Nebraska (which is painful to admit). He is just an amazing player, and I don't think I can recall the last time I saw a Defensive Tackle dominate a football game quite like the game on Saturday night, I think Colt McCoy is still seeing number 93 coming at him.
Denver Broncos
Wow, what a great game, that was huge, to go into Arrowhead in December and just dominate the game in such a convincing fashion. Yes there were some mistakes, and I harbor no illusions about the Broncos ability to go into Indianapolis on Sunday and beat the Colts, but for now I can take this. I will accept that we have a much tougher team than we did last year, and that teams will have legitimate reasons to fear us in the future. And we might even get that 'team no one wants to play' tag in the playoffs this year.
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. that's all I can say. (same Old Sorry Rams)
It was a good, albeit quiet weekend, with the family spending most of the time quietly inside due to the weather. My change to the media habits went over alright, with me having the most challenges to be honest. It was a mostly good football weekend.
Changing Habits
Kim was receptive to the idea of changing the family viewing habits, reducing TV and video game time. And we actually did alright for large chunks of the weekend. Saturday we (the boys & I) held on until about 1:00, at which point I sent the boys downstairs to watch cartoons while I watched football. But in the morning we played some games, they all played with the puppy outdoors (enjoying the brief moments of nice weather). Sunday afternoon We all took a break for a little while while I read and the kids played. So it was a nice change, I look forward to more time like it.
Daddy Hours
I opened up my game teaching time to both boys, until Daniel grew bored. I taught James a new game, one of my quasi-football board games. It was fun, it's a pretty basic game, and James got the hang of it pretty quick. I just had the inspiration that I could probably do a miniature game session with both boys over the holiday break and both of them might enjoy pushing some guys around the board more. Daniel is just not cerebral yet, he needs that tactile "these are my guys" approach to games. So that might be more fun for him. We'll see how it goes.
Football
College Football
Well I was mildly disappointed in Florida's loss to Alabama. I really like and admire Tebow and was hoping for him to have another big game on the big stage. That being said, there is no doubt in my mind that the best college football player in America is Suh from Nebraska (which is painful to admit). He is just an amazing player, and I don't think I can recall the last time I saw a Defensive Tackle dominate a football game quite like the game on Saturday night, I think Colt McCoy is still seeing number 93 coming at him.
Denver Broncos
Wow, what a great game, that was huge, to go into Arrowhead in December and just dominate the game in such a convincing fashion. Yes there were some mistakes, and I harbor no illusions about the Broncos ability to go into Indianapolis on Sunday and beat the Colts, but for now I can take this. I will accept that we have a much tougher team than we did last year, and that teams will have legitimate reasons to fear us in the future. And we might even get that 'team no one wants to play' tag in the playoffs this year.
St. Louis Rams
S.O.S.R. that's all I can say. (same Old Sorry Rams)
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Friday Ideas
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Starting this Thursday night for a change, because the idea that is spinning in my head right now is stuck and needs to be put into words. Lately I have been pondering television, specifically how much of it we watch as a family. I know that the coldest week of the year is maybe not the ideal time to ponder shutting down the TV, but the more I think about Daniel's Playstation habit the more I am forced to look at all of our electronic media habits.
Luddite Response?
Point One
All of us could do with a little less time in front of the TV. With the introduction of the puppy and my losing my lunchtime walk I am forced to think about how to get some exercise time. And to be honest it would not kill me to fine tune and reduce my TV time. And I think Kim wouldn't mind either if we just turned off the TV at night and either exercised or played games.
Point Two
James has a decent handle on the TV and video game playing, but it's a close run thing. Daniel is clearly a Lego Star Wars junkie. Emily could give or take the TV, but she does get a serious daze sometimes when we turn on cartoons. It has been convenient for us (me especially) to just let the boys turn on cartoons/Playstation in the mornings and all day on weekends sometimes. And that is my bad, mea culpa for allowing that to happen.
Point Three
What do I do then on Weekday mornings and Saturdays until basketball starts? That's the question. I think we (me & the boys) can turn it around and survive but I need to ponder how to do it, and prepare strategies in advance. That's it for tonight, I'll talk to Kim about this more tonight and over the weekend, start thinking about how I want to handle it and what restraints I actually want to put in place for TV, Playstation, computer games etc.
Football
College football
Mercifully over for the Buffs, and just the Cotton Bowl for the Rebs, so this drag on my weekends is slowly disappearing. It's weird, I try hard every year to reduce the stranglehold of football, and every year I do a little better, but it is still there, wiping out my down time every weekend. I know it is a process, and I don't want to just cut myself off cold turkey, but I know I could do something better with all that time.
St. Louis Rams
Same old sorry Rams, this week facing one of their last, best chances for a win. Not that I think they will, what little hope they had for an end of season resurrection went away when Bulger got hurt. Now it is just a matter of continuing the season long training camp for the rookies & free agents, and angling for better draft picks. Sigh, well maybe my prediction that I made that the Rams will be back in LA in 5 years will come true, along with an improved team.
Denver Broncos
Really could have picked a better weekend for that road game against the Chiefs. Considering we are 1-16 against the Chiefs in December in KC, not a good way to maintain the momentum of that Giants win. Maybe things will be different with the new coaching staff, if there is any way for them to show that this would be it. I am seriously hoping it works out.
Starting this Thursday night for a change, because the idea that is spinning in my head right now is stuck and needs to be put into words. Lately I have been pondering television, specifically how much of it we watch as a family. I know that the coldest week of the year is maybe not the ideal time to ponder shutting down the TV, but the more I think about Daniel's Playstation habit the more I am forced to look at all of our electronic media habits.
Luddite Response?
Point One
All of us could do with a little less time in front of the TV. With the introduction of the puppy and my losing my lunchtime walk I am forced to think about how to get some exercise time. And to be honest it would not kill me to fine tune and reduce my TV time. And I think Kim wouldn't mind either if we just turned off the TV at night and either exercised or played games.
Point Two
James has a decent handle on the TV and video game playing, but it's a close run thing. Daniel is clearly a Lego Star Wars junkie. Emily could give or take the TV, but she does get a serious daze sometimes when we turn on cartoons. It has been convenient for us (me especially) to just let the boys turn on cartoons/Playstation in the mornings and all day on weekends sometimes. And that is my bad, mea culpa for allowing that to happen.
Point Three
What do I do then on Weekday mornings and Saturdays until basketball starts? That's the question. I think we (me & the boys) can turn it around and survive but I need to ponder how to do it, and prepare strategies in advance. That's it for tonight, I'll talk to Kim about this more tonight and over the weekend, start thinking about how I want to handle it and what restraints I actually want to put in place for TV, Playstation, computer games etc.
Football
College football
Mercifully over for the Buffs, and just the Cotton Bowl for the Rebs, so this drag on my weekends is slowly disappearing. It's weird, I try hard every year to reduce the stranglehold of football, and every year I do a little better, but it is still there, wiping out my down time every weekend. I know it is a process, and I don't want to just cut myself off cold turkey, but I know I could do something better with all that time.
St. Louis Rams
Same old sorry Rams, this week facing one of their last, best chances for a win. Not that I think they will, what little hope they had for an end of season resurrection went away when Bulger got hurt. Now it is just a matter of continuing the season long training camp for the rookies & free agents, and angling for better draft picks. Sigh, well maybe my prediction that I made that the Rams will be back in LA in 5 years will come true, along with an improved team.
Denver Broncos
Really could have picked a better weekend for that road game against the Chiefs. Considering we are 1-16 against the Chiefs in December in KC, not a good way to maintain the momentum of that Giants win. Maybe things will be different with the new coaching staff, if there is any way for them to show that this would be it. I am seriously hoping it works out.
Thursday Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Crazy Thursday morning, all of the customers must have woken up today and decided to call in. Which makes me very ready for the upcoming weekend already, kind of a shame when the long weekend effect doesn't last more than 4 days. I'll catch up on the puppy here, plus some general thoughts.
Spotty
So the plan was for us to put the puppy in the laundry room with her crate and food and water during the days while we were at work. And that's what we did, however we did not count on the resourcefulness of Houdini dog. In a way this is good because when the weather gets nice we need to be prepared for when we put her outside without anyone watching for long periods of time. At first the plan was to leave the door open and just put up the baby gate (per my crate training guide this is recommended for younger puppies during the training who are used to more open spaces). We determined this wasn't going to work on Monday when Kim found out that she (Spotty) could climb over said baby gate. So on Tuesday I just closed the door to the laundry room (which doesn't latch BTW), with a cover over the cat door (which was never used by the cat). Well Houdini dog figured out how to latch on to the cover of said cat door and pull the door open. So yesterday I thought I would double up with the door and baby gate, no go. So I put a latch on the door, only to have her chew off the cover and go through the cat door. So finally this morning I latched the door and put up the baby gate (after first making sure there wasn't enough wiggle room for her to put her head through). We'll see if that finally keeps her in.
So that was the saga of the crate/potty training during work hours. At nights, after the first 2 nights of sleeping with us James asked if she could sleep with him & Daniel, which Kim agreed to. It still meant that we had to get up and take her out when she started whining. Which has sort of worked, we have both slept a little better. Although I had not counted on this part of having a puppy, kind of like having a baby again. Of course last night Daniel woke up wanting Spotty to sleep with him, which meant he did not sleep well, plus he can't get over the baby gate we put up in their door so she won't roam the house. It's a learning and training process, not helped by the fact that she is a tiny little thing who does not like the cold when we have to take her outside.
Overall though it has been a good experience, and James for sure has been really good this week about doing his part with the dog, and really enjoys just playing chase with her. Daniel basically enjoys the dog, but he's not 100% comfortable with the biting/nipping that puppies do. And Emily loves to watch the puppy and the boys, but wants nothing to do with the puppy chasing her and jumping on her. The only real drawback for me has been my losing out on my lunchtime walks since I am going home and eating and letting her out. I just have to find a new time when I get in that exercise, which will come with time.
Daddy Hours
James knows exactly what he wants to do this week: build a Magic Deck. My focus however will be on Daniel. I really need to buckle down with him and find something we can do together that doesn't involve James. James now has the puppy and lots of other things to do when I am not focused on him, Daniel does not have the other resources, his default is pretty much always "can I play Playstation?" And while I don't mind him playing occasionally I want him to develop some alternatives. So after a couple of weeks of the Daddy Hours that is where I stand: James is good, has discovered a new game, and Daniel is still locked in on the Playstation, progress but not as much as I want.
Crazy Thursday morning, all of the customers must have woken up today and decided to call in. Which makes me very ready for the upcoming weekend already, kind of a shame when the long weekend effect doesn't last more than 4 days. I'll catch up on the puppy here, plus some general thoughts.
Spotty
So the plan was for us to put the puppy in the laundry room with her crate and food and water during the days while we were at work. And that's what we did, however we did not count on the resourcefulness of Houdini dog. In a way this is good because when the weather gets nice we need to be prepared for when we put her outside without anyone watching for long periods of time. At first the plan was to leave the door open and just put up the baby gate (per my crate training guide this is recommended for younger puppies during the training who are used to more open spaces). We determined this wasn't going to work on Monday when Kim found out that she (Spotty) could climb over said baby gate. So on Tuesday I just closed the door to the laundry room (which doesn't latch BTW), with a cover over the cat door (which was never used by the cat). Well Houdini dog figured out how to latch on to the cover of said cat door and pull the door open. So yesterday I thought I would double up with the door and baby gate, no go. So I put a latch on the door, only to have her chew off the cover and go through the cat door. So finally this morning I latched the door and put up the baby gate (after first making sure there wasn't enough wiggle room for her to put her head through). We'll see if that finally keeps her in.
So that was the saga of the crate/potty training during work hours. At nights, after the first 2 nights of sleeping with us James asked if she could sleep with him & Daniel, which Kim agreed to. It still meant that we had to get up and take her out when she started whining. Which has sort of worked, we have both slept a little better. Although I had not counted on this part of having a puppy, kind of like having a baby again. Of course last night Daniel woke up wanting Spotty to sleep with him, which meant he did not sleep well, plus he can't get over the baby gate we put up in their door so she won't roam the house. It's a learning and training process, not helped by the fact that she is a tiny little thing who does not like the cold when we have to take her outside.
Overall though it has been a good experience, and James for sure has been really good this week about doing his part with the dog, and really enjoys just playing chase with her. Daniel basically enjoys the dog, but he's not 100% comfortable with the biting/nipping that puppies do. And Emily loves to watch the puppy and the boys, but wants nothing to do with the puppy chasing her and jumping on her. The only real drawback for me has been my losing out on my lunchtime walks since I am going home and eating and letting her out. I just have to find a new time when I get in that exercise, which will come with time.
Daddy Hours
James knows exactly what he wants to do this week: build a Magic Deck. My focus however will be on Daniel. I really need to buckle down with him and find something we can do together that doesn't involve James. James now has the puppy and lots of other things to do when I am not focused on him, Daniel does not have the other resources, his default is pretty much always "can I play Playstation?" And while I don't mind him playing occasionally I want him to develop some alternatives. So after a couple of weeks of the Daddy Hours that is where I stand: James is good, has discovered a new game, and Daniel is still locked in on the Playstation, progress but not as much as I want.
Monday, November 30, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Many things to catch up on and ponder as it turns to December, and my thoughts gradually turn to the NBA. We had an excellent long weekend/holiday. Thanksgiving went very well, I missed the chance to go and visit with my side of the family, but it was nice to have a quiet, relaxing day at home with the family instead of rushing about. I got some good chances to relax and hangout around the house, just relaxing with the kids. And our new addition arrived Saturday night, making Sunday a get acquainted day. All in all a good time, save for a bit of a crushing end to the college football season fro my teams.
Daddy Hours
Didn't get the official time with either boy this weekend, due to the length of the weekend etc. But I did sit down with James on Thanksgiving day and play a few hands of Magic. Then on Friday we went the game store and he used some saved birthday money to buy some of his own Magic cards. He enjoys playing the game, and has no idea about the whole collectible part of it, which I am doing my best to maintain. Because the whole collectible aspect really ruined the game for me in a lot of ways when I played it regularly. Daniel got to sate himself on Playstation and Lego Star Wars until Saturday night when I put the game up entirely. So my focus next Saturday has to be on him, and finding something new for him to do.
Spotty
This whole thing started a while back. The boys, James especially, had been making noises about getting a puppy. And to be honest I think Kim & I had wanted one as well, but had remained sensible about it. Well one of Kim's realtives in Texas had a dog that just gave birth to a litter, dogs that would be at least half terrier. And Dennis asked us if we watned them to bring one back when they went down there for Thanksgiving. After some discussion we decided to give them the go ahead. So Saturday night they showed up with the puppy. We had planned this to some extent so the kids knew it was coming.
So Sunday was a day spent getting acquainted, with the puppy recovering from the transplant, and the boys learning to0 get used to it. She has pretty much recovered by now and apparently is quite energetic already, whcih means the boys will have a new focus when they get home from school. I have documented my pictures from the first day here if anyone wants to see more of them.
Football
CU Buffs
And so the season ended, with crash and a whimper. With the team putting up a fight against the hated Huskers. And with the AD deciding that Hawkins will get at least 1 more year of reprieve. I can't say I am real happy about that. But with the youth of this team I guess there some chance things might come together next year. But I am not optimistic, I think they just put off the inevitable.
Ole Miss Rebels
Hate State! Damn, there goes a chance at a top tier bowl game. I hate this aspect of Rivalry weekend in college football, those times when they underdog rival just ups and smacks the favored team. Of course that could also be jealousy because the Buffs have been losing all of the rivalry games of late. Anyway, it's just a waiting period now before they decide what bowl they are going to. And inevitibaly it will again be played at a date and time when I won't be able to watch...
Denver Broncos
Well how about that? I sure didn't expect to see that team again this season. The team that plays defense with anger and speed. The team that dominates the Offensive line of scrimmage and grinds out the running game. Does this mean they have turned the season free fall around? I don't know, I sure as hell am not going to get my hoeps up after that 4 game losing streak. But I have regained at least some modicum of optimism. Which is more than I can say for the Rams...
St. Louis Rams
Same old sorry Rams, yep, losing to the same Seahawks team that was demolished the week before. This Rams team just might be the worst team in the NFL right now. At least it should be a pretty stacked draft to look forward to.
Many things to catch up on and ponder as it turns to December, and my thoughts gradually turn to the NBA. We had an excellent long weekend/holiday. Thanksgiving went very well, I missed the chance to go and visit with my side of the family, but it was nice to have a quiet, relaxing day at home with the family instead of rushing about. I got some good chances to relax and hangout around the house, just relaxing with the kids. And our new addition arrived Saturday night, making Sunday a get acquainted day. All in all a good time, save for a bit of a crushing end to the college football season fro my teams.
Daddy Hours
Didn't get the official time with either boy this weekend, due to the length of the weekend etc. But I did sit down with James on Thanksgiving day and play a few hands of Magic. Then on Friday we went the game store and he used some saved birthday money to buy some of his own Magic cards. He enjoys playing the game, and has no idea about the whole collectible part of it, which I am doing my best to maintain. Because the whole collectible aspect really ruined the game for me in a lot of ways when I played it regularly. Daniel got to sate himself on Playstation and Lego Star Wars until Saturday night when I put the game up entirely. So my focus next Saturday has to be on him, and finding something new for him to do.
Spotty
This whole thing started a while back. The boys, James especially, had been making noises about getting a puppy. And to be honest I think Kim & I had wanted one as well, but had remained sensible about it. Well one of Kim's realtives in Texas had a dog that just gave birth to a litter, dogs that would be at least half terrier. And Dennis asked us if we watned them to bring one back when they went down there for Thanksgiving. After some discussion we decided to give them the go ahead. So Saturday night they showed up with the puppy. We had planned this to some extent so the kids knew it was coming.
So Sunday was a day spent getting acquainted, with the puppy recovering from the transplant, and the boys learning to0 get used to it. She has pretty much recovered by now and apparently is quite energetic already, whcih means the boys will have a new focus when they get home from school. I have documented my pictures from the first day here if anyone wants to see more of them.
Football
CU Buffs
And so the season ended, with crash and a whimper. With the team putting up a fight against the hated Huskers. And with the AD deciding that Hawkins will get at least 1 more year of reprieve. I can't say I am real happy about that. But with the youth of this team I guess there some chance things might come together next year. But I am not optimistic, I think they just put off the inevitable.
Ole Miss Rebels
Hate State! Damn, there goes a chance at a top tier bowl game. I hate this aspect of Rivalry weekend in college football, those times when they underdog rival just ups and smacks the favored team. Of course that could also be jealousy because the Buffs have been losing all of the rivalry games of late. Anyway, it's just a waiting period now before they decide what bowl they are going to. And inevitibaly it will again be played at a date and time when I won't be able to watch...
Denver Broncos
Well how about that? I sure didn't expect to see that team again this season. The team that plays defense with anger and speed. The team that dominates the Offensive line of scrimmage and grinds out the running game. Does this mean they have turned the season free fall around? I don't know, I sure as hell am not going to get my hoeps up after that 4 game losing streak. But I have regained at least some modicum of optimism. Which is more than I can say for the Rams...
St. Louis Rams
Same old sorry Rams, yep, losing to the same Seahawks team that was demolished the week before. This Rams team just might be the worst team in the NFL right now. At least it should be a pretty stacked draft to look forward to.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Remembering Manny
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
It was a year ago tonight that Manny went into Cardiac Arrest. He never recovered from that and the subsequent shock and surgery. While his body hung on for several months after that to all intents and purposes he was gone from our lives that night.
I wasn't what you might call close to Manny, we were too different for that. But he was the closest person in my life to pass away since my grandmother Ruch passed over 20 years ago. And rarely does a day go past without my thinking of him in some fashion. He was too big a part of my family life for him to just be forgotten.
In the immortal words of Hunter Thompson: "He stomped Terra". He had a lot of friends and played a part in a lot of people's lives. And his effect on our life is hard not to notice. And a family event doesn't occur without my half expecting Big Red to pull up and him to come in and announce he would show us 'rookies' how to play whatever game we were playing. So tonight I am figuratively raising a toast to him, and letting him know that we all miss him, and he left us all too soon.
Monday, November 23, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Good weekend, could have been better had football not been such a downer, but overall it went well. Friday night was a good role playing session. The players seemed to enjoy themselves which was the most important part. Saturday was okay, Daddy Hour with James went well. Sunday we got the basement picked up, with some changes and just general cleaning. So it was a nice weekend, if unspectacular.
Daddy Hours
James and I played Magic again this week. I didn't get to my time with Daniel. I think this might end up being a trend, only really getting the time with 1 kid per week. Although how it all plays out once James gets back to sports is unclear. James is really enjoying the time paying Magic. Although this coming weekend I might teach him a new game, just to shake things up.
Projects
We cleared out the back room of the basement, again applying our ruthless efficiency, ending up with 2 large bags of goodwill items. Then we changed things up a little in the kids room, swapping out the mats for some carpet we had bought some time ago. We might have done even more but we didn't get started on Saturday as Kim came home from working feeling really bad, so I just focused on letting her relax.
Football
Ole Miss Rebels
I watched most of the 1st half, and then the end of this game. It was pretty crazy, I was glad that Ole Miss won. Although I think this was not one of those games that the SEC officials will keep for the records of how great their refs are. The Rebels had 2 horrible calls go against them in the first quarter, and if they had lost the game it would have been yet another disaster for the SEC. Fortunately LSU forgot how to handle the clock in the closing seconds so they blew what should have been a big win for them. I'll take it, and look forward to State, and hopefully a good bowl game.
St. Louis Rams
Ah well, another outmatched, hard fought loss. I guess they made some good adjustments and played a good second half. This team just has some big strides to make as far as talent. I just hope they saw what the Lions did and saw what a difference a franchise quarterback can actually make.
Denver Broncos
If this season is about the stages of grief we Broncos fans should be ready for Acceptance after this coming week:
Denial: How did we lose to the Ravens? They just needed it more than we did I guess
Anger: Damn Orton, throwing the game away woith turnovers, it's all his fault
Bargaining: OK, so Orton got hurt, we had it, but blew it because of bad luck, maybe if Simms can just shake off the rust...
Depression: ah crap, we got thumped by the Chargers, this just sucks...
I can blame a lot of external factors but I have to admit to myself that this team is presently not far different from what I expected from this season. It is just frustrating that we got that early 6-0 start which got everyone thinking big things. The reality is there are some real holes: the defense is small and the secondary is not composed of the right type of talent for the scheme. The offense is limited by the weakness of the QB. But, if we can regain some momentum, and then plug some holes with the draft we could make some real noise next year.
Good weekend, could have been better had football not been such a downer, but overall it went well. Friday night was a good role playing session. The players seemed to enjoy themselves which was the most important part. Saturday was okay, Daddy Hour with James went well. Sunday we got the basement picked up, with some changes and just general cleaning. So it was a nice weekend, if unspectacular.
Daddy Hours
James and I played Magic again this week. I didn't get to my time with Daniel. I think this might end up being a trend, only really getting the time with 1 kid per week. Although how it all plays out once James gets back to sports is unclear. James is really enjoying the time paying Magic. Although this coming weekend I might teach him a new game, just to shake things up.
Projects
We cleared out the back room of the basement, again applying our ruthless efficiency, ending up with 2 large bags of goodwill items. Then we changed things up a little in the kids room, swapping out the mats for some carpet we had bought some time ago. We might have done even more but we didn't get started on Saturday as Kim came home from working feeling really bad, so I just focused on letting her relax.
Football
Ole Miss Rebels
I watched most of the 1st half, and then the end of this game. It was pretty crazy, I was glad that Ole Miss won. Although I think this was not one of those games that the SEC officials will keep for the records of how great their refs are. The Rebels had 2 horrible calls go against them in the first quarter, and if they had lost the game it would have been yet another disaster for the SEC. Fortunately LSU forgot how to handle the clock in the closing seconds so they blew what should have been a big win for them. I'll take it, and look forward to State, and hopefully a good bowl game.
St. Louis Rams
Ah well, another outmatched, hard fought loss. I guess they made some good adjustments and played a good second half. This team just has some big strides to make as far as talent. I just hope they saw what the Lions did and saw what a difference a franchise quarterback can actually make.
Denver Broncos
If this season is about the stages of grief we Broncos fans should be ready for Acceptance after this coming week:
Denial: How did we lose to the Ravens? They just needed it more than we did I guess
Anger: Damn Orton, throwing the game away woith turnovers, it's all his fault
Bargaining: OK, so Orton got hurt, we had it, but blew it because of bad luck, maybe if Simms can just shake off the rust...
Depression: ah crap, we got thumped by the Chargers, this just sucks...
I can blame a lot of external factors but I have to admit to myself that this team is presently not far different from what I expected from this season. It is just frustrating that we got that early 6-0 start which got everyone thinking big things. The reality is there are some real holes: the defense is small and the secondary is not composed of the right type of talent for the scheme. The offense is limited by the weakness of the QB. But, if we can regain some momentum, and then plug some holes with the draft we could make some real noise next year.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Weekend Plans + Football Friday
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Lot's to cover today, weekend plans, Daddy Hours, football, misc. other thoughts cluttering up my mind. I have hard a hard time getting motivated to write this week, finally feeling the urge today so be warned. I might end up ranting a little and writing an epic post.
Weekend Plans
This is short, no plans! Hopefully get some cleaning and house organizing done, clearing the decks for the holiday. We need to clean out and organize the back room (again). Which shouldn't be too painful, just time consuming.
Daddy Hours
I don't know what Daniel wants to do, I asked him this morning and he said he wants to play on the trampoline. I don't mind that if the weather is decent, gives me some exercise, which is not always easy to come by on a weekend. If the weather doesn't permit that then maybe I will take the time to show him how to play something simple, like Candy Land.
I am looking forward to sitting down with James this week and showing him the new Magic deck I built for him. I had fun constructing it for him, it's a super basic deck, I have no idea if it is competitive, but it should be fun anyway. I think Magic is a good alternative for us for right now, it forces him to learn some new skills, and he can practice other things, like reading.
Family
There is nothing real new this week, it's just a tough time right now, with Thanksgiving coming up, which means the anniversary of Manny's cardiac arrest (which meant his death to all intents and purposes). And all we can do is offer a helping hand to Connie, make sure she has someone there for her. And try to help her make the right decisions right now. Tammy is maybe getting her act together to some extent, and now it is time for Connie to find some way to move on. But all we can do as far as that is concerned is just be there, and that's my focus for next week, make sure she doesn't have a lot of time to just sit around and think about that horrible time a year ago.
Football
CU Buffs
I watched bits and pieces of the game last night, and followed score updates on my phone. I saw what I have seen for pretty much the enitre season: a young, talented team with very little experience. They made a lot of mistakes, but also just enough plays to stay in the game. Such promise. And I think that if that or next week end up being Dan Hawkins last game it will be fitting. Because if there was a better example of what went wrong this year and in other years this was it: promise and talent that was wasted due to ineffective coaching. We have the players, but they haven't met their promise likely due to a failure of the coaches. That is the coaching staffs job: take that talent and mold it into a successful team, and that is what the coaching staff missed.
Ole Miss
LSU game this week. This was the game last year that made me realize the potential for this team. And if there is any game this season that they need to win to fulfill a part of this season's promise it is this one. Beat LSU, and they get into a better bowl, and keep the ball rolling on improving this year to next.
St. Louis Rams
Big game this week, sort of, as big as they get for a 1-8 team. Big to beat Warner in St. Louis. Big for Bulger to try and remind the fans that the team made the right move several years ago. I just want them to keep doing what they have been doing: play tough, competitive football. Maybe scare the other teams, start building the core of the team for next year.
Denver Broncos
Can Simms rediscover what it was that made him a 2nd round draft pick? Can the offensive line open enough holes for the running game so the defense has to be honest? And most importantly can the defense get enough rest so it doesn't wipe out in exhaustion in the 2nd half again? Big questions. I don't know the answers, I like to think the coaching staff can figure things out and make the right adjustments, but San Diego flat out scares me, so I just don't know. I hope that the bleeding stops this week, but I kind of doubt that it will.
Basketball
LA Lakers
If there is any one thing that Laker fans need to remember right now it is that they don't hand out championship trophies in November. Just because they had a couple of big losses won't mean a thing in May and June, that's just a fact. So I am not remotely worried about this big losses last week, nor did I care when my mother in law chortled about the Nuggets thumping the Lakers, don't mean a thing in November, as long as you don't have a major injury.
Simmons' The Book of Basketball
Slowly working my way through this book. Taking my time, trying to ration it, enjoy it, argue with it etc. So far I am immensely pleased with it, and think it is a wonderful addition to my collection. Sure I may not agree with him on everything, but it is great none the less, and so far he has presented reasonable argument so far pretty much all of his stands, even if I don't agree with all of them.
Lot's to cover today, weekend plans, Daddy Hours, football, misc. other thoughts cluttering up my mind. I have hard a hard time getting motivated to write this week, finally feeling the urge today so be warned. I might end up ranting a little and writing an epic post.
Weekend Plans
This is short, no plans! Hopefully get some cleaning and house organizing done, clearing the decks for the holiday. We need to clean out and organize the back room (again). Which shouldn't be too painful, just time consuming.
Daddy Hours
I don't know what Daniel wants to do, I asked him this morning and he said he wants to play on the trampoline. I don't mind that if the weather is decent, gives me some exercise, which is not always easy to come by on a weekend. If the weather doesn't permit that then maybe I will take the time to show him how to play something simple, like Candy Land.
I am looking forward to sitting down with James this week and showing him the new Magic deck I built for him. I had fun constructing it for him, it's a super basic deck, I have no idea if it is competitive, but it should be fun anyway. I think Magic is a good alternative for us for right now, it forces him to learn some new skills, and he can practice other things, like reading.
Family
There is nothing real new this week, it's just a tough time right now, with Thanksgiving coming up, which means the anniversary of Manny's cardiac arrest (which meant his death to all intents and purposes). And all we can do is offer a helping hand to Connie, make sure she has someone there for her. And try to help her make the right decisions right now. Tammy is maybe getting her act together to some extent, and now it is time for Connie to find some way to move on. But all we can do as far as that is concerned is just be there, and that's my focus for next week, make sure she doesn't have a lot of time to just sit around and think about that horrible time a year ago.
Football
CU Buffs
I watched bits and pieces of the game last night, and followed score updates on my phone. I saw what I have seen for pretty much the enitre season: a young, talented team with very little experience. They made a lot of mistakes, but also just enough plays to stay in the game. Such promise. And I think that if that or next week end up being Dan Hawkins last game it will be fitting. Because if there was a better example of what went wrong this year and in other years this was it: promise and talent that was wasted due to ineffective coaching. We have the players, but they haven't met their promise likely due to a failure of the coaches. That is the coaching staffs job: take that talent and mold it into a successful team, and that is what the coaching staff missed.
Ole Miss
LSU game this week. This was the game last year that made me realize the potential for this team. And if there is any game this season that they need to win to fulfill a part of this season's promise it is this one. Beat LSU, and they get into a better bowl, and keep the ball rolling on improving this year to next.
St. Louis Rams
Big game this week, sort of, as big as they get for a 1-8 team. Big to beat Warner in St. Louis. Big for Bulger to try and remind the fans that the team made the right move several years ago. I just want them to keep doing what they have been doing: play tough, competitive football. Maybe scare the other teams, start building the core of the team for next year.
Denver Broncos
Can Simms rediscover what it was that made him a 2nd round draft pick? Can the offensive line open enough holes for the running game so the defense has to be honest? And most importantly can the defense get enough rest so it doesn't wipe out in exhaustion in the 2nd half again? Big questions. I don't know the answers, I like to think the coaching staff can figure things out and make the right adjustments, but San Diego flat out scares me, so I just don't know. I hope that the bleeding stops this week, but I kind of doubt that it will.
Basketball
LA Lakers
If there is any one thing that Laker fans need to remember right now it is that they don't hand out championship trophies in November. Just because they had a couple of big losses won't mean a thing in May and June, that's just a fact. So I am not remotely worried about this big losses last week, nor did I care when my mother in law chortled about the Nuggets thumping the Lakers, don't mean a thing in November, as long as you don't have a major injury.
Simmons' The Book of Basketball
Slowly working my way through this book. Taking my time, trying to ration it, enjoy it, argue with it etc. So far I am immensely pleased with it, and think it is a wonderful addition to my collection. Sure I may not agree with him on everything, but it is great none the less, and so far he has presented reasonable argument so far pretty much all of his stands, even if I don't agree with all of them.
Monday, November 16, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Another good weekend was marred by some horrible football luck, but it's weekends like this that remind me I have to learn to push past those things and not let them affect me. I was able to get in Daddy Hours with both boys, and both went well. We all had a good time at Dillon's birthday party, despite the weather limiting options somewhat. I was stricken by a major headache on Sunday that sent me to bed early and had me thinking I might be finally catching the plague that has affected everyone but after some initial blurriness I was able to move forward this morning.
Daddy Hours
Daniel and I built him a Lego car. It was fun, Daniel enjoyed the car, which was the important part. It wasn't real interactive, but it's hard to find that kind of time right now with all of the kids awake and wanting to do stuff. James and I played some more Magic, he wanted to play Lego's but I told him that the time was better doing something we are both involved in like play a game, and he chose Magic. Which spurred me to look at all of my cards and ponder building some more decks to play with, give us more options. And maybe Santa will gift him with some decks for Xmas. I know I have gotten him several games, and he hasn't played as much with some of them, but I think that is part of the learning process and he might play some of them again as he gets older and more sophisticated in game play.
Football
CU Buffs
I listened to the game on the radio for about 10 minutes and turned it off. This season just wasn't meant to be. The big thing right now is that we have a very young team, and in the cyclical nature of college football the same players may all gel next year and have a big season. You never know, but a season like this does make even the hard core fans like me question if we really have the right coach.
Ole Miss
I actually got to watch some of the game on Saturday. Why oh why did Nutt wait so long to make sure McCluster got touches? He's such an explosive player, and he barely saw the ball in our biggest games of the season. It is surprising for Nutt, because at Arkansas he wasn't exactly shy about molding his game plans around his best players. Odd, but at least the Rebs will get in a bowl game, and hopefully keep stocking the team with quality recruits.
St. Louis Rams
Effort, it's what a season like this is about for bad teams like the Rams, who just don't have a lot of talent. I had hoped for just this type of loss: close, with the Rams really fighting it out to the end. The team can feel bad about the loss, but feel bad while thinking 'hey we could, should have won that game' which is a good feeling for a 1-8 team to have. As opposed to the 'why did we lose? Are we just not that good?' type of loss, which is what the Broncos had.
Denver Broncos
How do you feel about the Broncos now? To quote the Birdcage: "How do you think I feel? Betrayed, bewildered..." That was the type of loss that does make you leave thinking that maybe you just aren't that good. Maybe your early season wins were mostly luck. I just don't know at this point, my confidence from Friday about a winning season is now in doubt. Who would have thought that our hopes for the rest of the season would rest on Orton's health? I can hope that Simms just needed to knock some rust off, but I doubt that is really the case. I am back to hoping we get that good quarterback in the draft next year, who can make all of the throws, not just the short ones or the ones to wide open receivers. We've got to do something to help the offense, otherwise 2 excellent wide receivers are being totally wasted.
So a pretty crappy weekend football wise, I just need to find better ways of handling that when it happens. Because if you take that away I had a good weekend, so it's all in my head. I know I can do it, just have to get focused on it.
Another good weekend was marred by some horrible football luck, but it's weekends like this that remind me I have to learn to push past those things and not let them affect me. I was able to get in Daddy Hours with both boys, and both went well. We all had a good time at Dillon's birthday party, despite the weather limiting options somewhat. I was stricken by a major headache on Sunday that sent me to bed early and had me thinking I might be finally catching the plague that has affected everyone but after some initial blurriness I was able to move forward this morning.
Daddy Hours
Daniel and I built him a Lego car. It was fun, Daniel enjoyed the car, which was the important part. It wasn't real interactive, but it's hard to find that kind of time right now with all of the kids awake and wanting to do stuff. James and I played some more Magic, he wanted to play Lego's but I told him that the time was better doing something we are both involved in like play a game, and he chose Magic. Which spurred me to look at all of my cards and ponder building some more decks to play with, give us more options. And maybe Santa will gift him with some decks for Xmas. I know I have gotten him several games, and he hasn't played as much with some of them, but I think that is part of the learning process and he might play some of them again as he gets older and more sophisticated in game play.
Football
CU Buffs
I listened to the game on the radio for about 10 minutes and turned it off. This season just wasn't meant to be. The big thing right now is that we have a very young team, and in the cyclical nature of college football the same players may all gel next year and have a big season. You never know, but a season like this does make even the hard core fans like me question if we really have the right coach.
Ole Miss
I actually got to watch some of the game on Saturday. Why oh why did Nutt wait so long to make sure McCluster got touches? He's such an explosive player, and he barely saw the ball in our biggest games of the season. It is surprising for Nutt, because at Arkansas he wasn't exactly shy about molding his game plans around his best players. Odd, but at least the Rebs will get in a bowl game, and hopefully keep stocking the team with quality recruits.
St. Louis Rams
Effort, it's what a season like this is about for bad teams like the Rams, who just don't have a lot of talent. I had hoped for just this type of loss: close, with the Rams really fighting it out to the end. The team can feel bad about the loss, but feel bad while thinking 'hey we could, should have won that game' which is a good feeling for a 1-8 team to have. As opposed to the 'why did we lose? Are we just not that good?' type of loss, which is what the Broncos had.
Denver Broncos
How do you feel about the Broncos now? To quote the Birdcage: "How do you think I feel? Betrayed, bewildered..." That was the type of loss that does make you leave thinking that maybe you just aren't that good. Maybe your early season wins were mostly luck. I just don't know at this point, my confidence from Friday about a winning season is now in doubt. Who would have thought that our hopes for the rest of the season would rest on Orton's health? I can hope that Simms just needed to knock some rust off, but I doubt that is really the case. I am back to hoping we get that good quarterback in the draft next year, who can make all of the throws, not just the short ones or the ones to wide open receivers. We've got to do something to help the offense, otherwise 2 excellent wide receivers are being totally wasted.
So a pretty crappy weekend football wise, I just need to find better ways of handling that when it happens. Because if you take that away I had a good weekend, so it's all in my head. I know I can do it, just have to get focused on it.
Friday, November 13, 2009
Football Friday + Other thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Glad this is Friday, it's been a bit of a slog this week,what with James being sick, then the holiday in the middle of the week for the boys. But it's almost over. I had a good week maintaining diet/exercise routine. The weekend looks promising despite the threats of poor weather. Another Family birthday party, but for once a free Sunday. And a chance for me to actually watch some football in peace. Daniel will get priority with the Daddy Hour this week as he missed out last week.
Exercise
So I have gradually settled into a routine that I can live with. I decided to for go Couch to 5K for now, make that a Spring goal. For now it is walking 4-5 days a week, plus evening stretching and situps every other day. That plus maintaining good eating habits should allow me to accomplish my goals. And the energy level continues to go up, which only has the draw back of feeling kind of restless in the evenings, which isn't that bad of a deal.
Daddy Hours
So I told the boys that Daniel gets first priority this weekend since he got skipped last weekend. James sort of balked but I made it clear that is the way this goes. It is the only way to keep it fair for both of them. Daniel says he wants to play legos, learn how to build a Lego car, which should be interesting to work with him.
Football
CU Buffs
Absolute Make or break game this weekend, to be honest this is already a lost season but there is the thinnest of margins left. If they win out and other things fall their way they could still win the North, and get the joy of being destroyed by Texas... I am not getting my hopes up or making plans to watch the games any more. But it is still nice to imagine some good might still happen.
Ole Miss Rebels
Big game this week, not for the SEC West, that is already gone. Just for the chance at a respectable record and a better bowl. That's what they are fighting for against Tennessee this weekend. And really boils down to what Jevan Snead shows up this week: the guy who throws multiple TD's every week, or the skittish, throw it up for grabs guy we saw against Auburn. As Snead goes so go the Rebs...
Denver Broncos
Welcome back to earth. Now looking at the schedule with realistic expectations there are 4 games left against bad teams: Redskins, Raiders, Chiefs twice. If all we do is win 3 out of those 4 games we end up with a winning record. I have higher hopes, but there are some limitations with the available talent that have to be taken into consideration. I hope that the coaches can scheme their way past those limitations to win enough games to make it into the playoffs, which is a win for us for the season. But we have to start with the Redskins game this weekend. Which has the defense to accomplish what the Ravens and Steelers did, but not any where close to the same level Offense, so this might be another close game where the Defense wins the game for us.
St. Louis Rams
Ugh, coming off a bye week after the first victory of the season would seem to be the time to gain some momentum, except when you have to play the most dominant team in the league this season. Well this is one of those weeks that is all about moral victories: can we hold the Saints under 30 points? Can we actually score a touchdown? Things like that. And it is one of those weeks where we really see how good a Defensive coach Spagnolo really is.
So should be a good weekend, I'm looking forward to it.
Glad this is Friday, it's been a bit of a slog this week,what with James being sick, then the holiday in the middle of the week for the boys. But it's almost over. I had a good week maintaining diet/exercise routine. The weekend looks promising despite the threats of poor weather. Another Family birthday party, but for once a free Sunday. And a chance for me to actually watch some football in peace. Daniel will get priority with the Daddy Hour this week as he missed out last week.
Exercise
So I have gradually settled into a routine that I can live with. I decided to for go Couch to 5K for now, make that a Spring goal. For now it is walking 4-5 days a week, plus evening stretching and situps every other day. That plus maintaining good eating habits should allow me to accomplish my goals. And the energy level continues to go up, which only has the draw back of feeling kind of restless in the evenings, which isn't that bad of a deal.
Daddy Hours
So I told the boys that Daniel gets first priority this weekend since he got skipped last weekend. James sort of balked but I made it clear that is the way this goes. It is the only way to keep it fair for both of them. Daniel says he wants to play legos, learn how to build a Lego car, which should be interesting to work with him.
Football
CU Buffs
Absolute Make or break game this weekend, to be honest this is already a lost season but there is the thinnest of margins left. If they win out and other things fall their way they could still win the North, and get the joy of being destroyed by Texas... I am not getting my hopes up or making plans to watch the games any more. But it is still nice to imagine some good might still happen.
Ole Miss Rebels
Big game this week, not for the SEC West, that is already gone. Just for the chance at a respectable record and a better bowl. That's what they are fighting for against Tennessee this weekend. And really boils down to what Jevan Snead shows up this week: the guy who throws multiple TD's every week, or the skittish, throw it up for grabs guy we saw against Auburn. As Snead goes so go the Rebs...
Denver Broncos
Welcome back to earth. Now looking at the schedule with realistic expectations there are 4 games left against bad teams: Redskins, Raiders, Chiefs twice. If all we do is win 3 out of those 4 games we end up with a winning record. I have higher hopes, but there are some limitations with the available talent that have to be taken into consideration. I hope that the coaches can scheme their way past those limitations to win enough games to make it into the playoffs, which is a win for us for the season. But we have to start with the Redskins game this weekend. Which has the defense to accomplish what the Ravens and Steelers did, but not any where close to the same level Offense, so this might be another close game where the Defense wins the game for us.
St. Louis Rams
Ugh, coming off a bye week after the first victory of the season would seem to be the time to gain some momentum, except when you have to play the most dominant team in the league this season. Well this is one of those weeks that is all about moral victories: can we hold the Saints under 30 points? Can we actually score a touchdown? Things like that. And it is one of those weeks where we really see how good a Defensive coach Spagnolo really is.
So should be a good weekend, I'm looking forward to it.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Football Thoughts + Mad Men thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
Football
Denver Broncos
Well I don't think the sky is falling, but I do think the league has caught up to this team a little bit, and figured out where the smoke and mirrors are. The defense can be worn down, it is about scheme more than talent. When they take that jump in weight class and play a team with a top offensive line they can be blocked. The offense is limited by the ability of Orton to accurately throw a deep ball. And the run game is as much about scheme as it is about talent.
The schedule does grant us some favors, we get the Chiefs twice, and the Raiders again, plus the Redskins. So I still see a winning record and possibly a fight for the playoffs. But there is a talent deficit in some areas and we have seen that the last 2 weeks. And boy genius will have to figure out some clever ways to scheme around the limitations of the quarterback. But I don't see us making much noise in January, the limitations will be too difficult to overcome
My tweets from the game:
Nervous? Heck yeah I'm nervous, down 3-7 with the offense looking slow, not good #Broncos
Looks like one of the teams made an adjustment at the half, not the #bronco D..,
Come on #Bronco defense, we need another turnover while Orton gets settled down.
We dodged a bullet but the #Broncos offense couldn't do much so it's up to the D to do their part
Our defensive line is getting held on nearly every play, I guess refs read press clippings too #Broncos
Think Orton and the #Bronco offense have a miracle in them? I sure don't, not tonight.
First time the refs haven't screwed us tonight...
That's it I'm done, better to finish off #MadMen than lt #Broncos ruin the whole night.
Which leads me to my discussion of:
Mad Men
What a great way to end the season! Some people thought it was a little anti-climactic after the last episode. But I loved it, because it focused on the most interesting characters and what they bring to the show. And it was a kind of 'let's get the gang together' type of story, which I always find interesting. And of course, just when I feel bad for Don he brings me back to the fold with some great selfless speech, humbling himself before the jury as it were.
I really enjoyed this season, and now have the melancholy feel that you get when you finish a really good book. You loved it so much you don't want it to end. But at least I can console myself with the knowledge that there will be at least one more season next year to look forward to.
Football
Denver Broncos
Well I don't think the sky is falling, but I do think the league has caught up to this team a little bit, and figured out where the smoke and mirrors are. The defense can be worn down, it is about scheme more than talent. When they take that jump in weight class and play a team with a top offensive line they can be blocked. The offense is limited by the ability of Orton to accurately throw a deep ball. And the run game is as much about scheme as it is about talent.
The schedule does grant us some favors, we get the Chiefs twice, and the Raiders again, plus the Redskins. So I still see a winning record and possibly a fight for the playoffs. But there is a talent deficit in some areas and we have seen that the last 2 weeks. And boy genius will have to figure out some clever ways to scheme around the limitations of the quarterback. But I don't see us making much noise in January, the limitations will be too difficult to overcome
My tweets from the game:
Nervous? Heck yeah I'm nervous, down 3-7 with the offense looking slow, not good #Broncos
Looks like one of the teams made an adjustment at the half, not the #bronco D..,
Come on #Bronco defense, we need another turnover while Orton gets settled down.
We dodged a bullet but the #Broncos offense couldn't do much so it's up to the D to do their part
Our defensive line is getting held on nearly every play, I guess refs read press clippings too #Broncos
Think Orton and the #Bronco offense have a miracle in them? I sure don't, not tonight.
First time the refs haven't screwed us tonight...
That's it I'm done, better to finish off #MadMen than lt #Broncos ruin the whole night.
Which leads me to my discussion of:
Mad Men
What a great way to end the season! Some people thought it was a little anti-climactic after the last episode. But I loved it, because it focused on the most interesting characters and what they bring to the show. And it was a kind of 'let's get the gang together' type of story, which I always find interesting. And of course, just when I feel bad for Don he brings me back to the fold with some great selfless speech, humbling himself before the jury as it were.
I really enjoyed this season, and now have the melancholy feel that you get when you finish a really good book. You loved it so much you don't want it to end. But at least I can console myself with the knowledge that there will be at least one more season next year to look forward to.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Weekend Recap
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
Barely watched any football this weekend so not much to say there. But a decent weekend all told. Good time getting back into the Role playing mode Friday night. Got in a trip to the library Saturday, decent Daddy hour with James despite Emily being in a grouchy mood. Sunday's birthday party for Kim went well, despite James being laid up in bed all day. Good weekend overall though.
Role Playing
We had a good time role playing Friday night. I kept the scenario simple and combat oriented, I knew this group wouldn't be up to anything too serious the first time back together after a long hiatus. But it was fun, I kept things consistent and fun. Poor Stephan came down with the flu so he didn't get to play much, hope he gets better. And I already have a good idea germinating in my skull for the next game in 2 weeks.
Daddy Hour
Daniel didn't get his time this week, I have to make him the priority next weekend. But I decided that James was ready to learn another new game. So I sat him down and taught him the Magic card game. He did well, I don't exactly think he is ready to build decks or anything like that yet, but he had a good time and seemed enthused about playing. Which is all I can really ask for. I have to focus on getting Daniel his time next week, which shouldn't be too hard since we will be heading to another family birthday party where James will get lots of play time with big kids.
Kim's party
Went well, she was happy with it. And the only real hitch was James not being able to do anything. He woke up with a sore throat and fever and it gradually got worse as the day went on. Kim will take him to the Dr. today, hope it's not anything too dreadful, although since he has been throwing up today it could be Flu + Strep throat, whcih could lay him up for a couple of days.
Anyway, thanks to everyone for coming. Kim appreciated all the company and presents and cards. She had a good time teaching some new games. And the food was all very good, and the cake was devoured, which is always a good thing. This was the last of our family birthdays for a while, at least for us as hosts, Dennis gets to host the next 2 for Dillon and Megan. Although we will host Thanksgiving in between, which won't be all that big since it will be just our family and Tammy's family plus 2 grandma's.
James officially has Strep, which will mean he's out of school for at least another day (already has Wednesday off though). 10 day course of antibiotics and lots of TLC should see him back to normal by Thursday. Good thing we kept him in seclusion for most of the day yesterday though.
Football Thoughts
Ole Miss
Did it's job, as expected, knocking off that noted power house Northern Arizona. So they will get to go to a bowl game, which is good. But still a bit of a disappointing season over all.
CU Buffs
I wasn't able to watch the game as it played, but I was on the computer the whole time so I was following it in a kind of play by play mode. So it was cool that we came back and won. It wasn't exactly a convincing win, but a W is a W. After the week the program had we really needed something good to happen like this. I can only hope that they find a way to build on it.
Broncos
Play tonight, so nothing real new to report there. This is a big game. A chance to see how they rebound from their first loss. How does the coach game plan and adjust to what was done to them. And how do they handle a tough opponent. All very big questions that will go a long way towards determining what kind of season we can really expect the rest of the way. I am really looking forward to the game.
Barely watched any football this weekend so not much to say there. But a decent weekend all told. Good time getting back into the Role playing mode Friday night. Got in a trip to the library Saturday, decent Daddy hour with James despite Emily being in a grouchy mood. Sunday's birthday party for Kim went well, despite James being laid up in bed all day. Good weekend overall though.
Role Playing
We had a good time role playing Friday night. I kept the scenario simple and combat oriented, I knew this group wouldn't be up to anything too serious the first time back together after a long hiatus. But it was fun, I kept things consistent and fun. Poor Stephan came down with the flu so he didn't get to play much, hope he gets better. And I already have a good idea germinating in my skull for the next game in 2 weeks.
Daddy Hour
Daniel didn't get his time this week, I have to make him the priority next weekend. But I decided that James was ready to learn another new game. So I sat him down and taught him the Magic card game. He did well, I don't exactly think he is ready to build decks or anything like that yet, but he had a good time and seemed enthused about playing. Which is all I can really ask for. I have to focus on getting Daniel his time next week, which shouldn't be too hard since we will be heading to another family birthday party where James will get lots of play time with big kids.
Kim's party
Went well, she was happy with it. And the only real hitch was James not being able to do anything. He woke up with a sore throat and fever and it gradually got worse as the day went on. Kim will take him to the Dr. today, hope it's not anything too dreadful, although since he has been throwing up today it could be Flu + Strep throat, whcih could lay him up for a couple of days.
Anyway, thanks to everyone for coming. Kim appreciated all the company and presents and cards. She had a good time teaching some new games. And the food was all very good, and the cake was devoured, which is always a good thing. This was the last of our family birthdays for a while, at least for us as hosts, Dennis gets to host the next 2 for Dillon and Megan. Although we will host Thanksgiving in between, which won't be all that big since it will be just our family and Tammy's family plus 2 grandma's.
James officially has Strep, which will mean he's out of school for at least another day (already has Wednesday off though). 10 day course of antibiotics and lots of TLC should see him back to normal by Thursday. Good thing we kept him in seclusion for most of the day yesterday though.
Football Thoughts
Ole Miss
Did it's job, as expected, knocking off that noted power house Northern Arizona. So they will get to go to a bowl game, which is good. But still a bit of a disappointing season over all.
CU Buffs
I wasn't able to watch the game as it played, but I was on the computer the whole time so I was following it in a kind of play by play mode. So it was cool that we came back and won. It wasn't exactly a convincing win, but a W is a W. After the week the program had we really needed something good to happen like this. I can only hope that they find a way to build on it.
Broncos
Play tonight, so nothing real new to report there. This is a big game. A chance to see how they rebound from their first loss. How does the coach game plan and adjust to what was done to them. And how do they handle a tough opponent. All very big questions that will go a long way towards determining what kind of season we can really expect the rest of the way. I am really looking forward to the game.
Friday, November 6, 2009
Football Friday + Other thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily
Football
CU Buffs
I am emotionally spent by this season. It has just been exhausting, so many hopes dashed. And having another top recruit fail to succeed and transfer was just the topping on this crap sandwich of a season. I know the team and coaching team have to remain optimistic and act like everything will turn around, but I just don't see it. I will be surprised if we win another game this season. yuck...
Ole Miss Rebels
Oh yeah I forgot this is Ole Miss, not a real football school. Ole Miss doesn't contend in the SEC West, no matter how good they look. Another disappointment, more disappointing than CU in that the expectations were so much higher. It just goes to show you how important continuity is in a program, and really appreciate how good the top programs and coaches really are. You would think they can at least insure another bowl game this week against Northern Arizona.
St. Louis Rams
I can guarantee you the Rams will not lose this week... They have a bye. 1-7 is not what I hoped for this season, but if there is such a thing as 1-7 with a bullet it would be the Rams. I think the worst may be behind the team, there is a sense that while the talent is still no where close, there are good things starting to happen.
Denver Broncos
So Monday Night is the game for the season for the new coach. How does he get the team to handle it's first loss? And how does he defeat the blueprint that was clearly shown by the Ravens on how to beat the Broncos? Big time, tough questions. Should be interesting to watch. I am not sure we will have all of the answers, but a home game, even against the Steelers, should help restore some of the luster.
Weekend Plans
Daddy Hours
Week two of the Daddy Hours tomorrow. Daniel has said he wants to play Lego's he wants to know how to build a car. James wasn't sure what he wanted to do the last I checked. This is where this new 'tradition' will really start in. The first week 2 weeks ago was more of a test run. This week marks the start of 2 months of these weekends, so we should see if the idea has any staying power.
Kim's Party
Not trying to sound like a whiner but I am a little frustrated. I know Kim is not as social I am, and doesn't have as large a circle of friends as I do. But I try to arrange parties for her, and it rarely works out. I initially planned for a Saturday night so people could hang out later, play games etc. like she really enjoys. But a number of people said they had plans. So I moved it, and now even more people are unable to make it! It's frustrating. Again I know Kim just isn't that social, and to be honest she probably won't care so long as her family shows up. But it is still annoying to me that we make efforts to accept pretty much every social invitation for family style events (kids allowed, we don't do much 'adult' events because we don't drink so those types of parties tend to bore us), and there is not much in the way of reciprocity. But anyway we are having her birthday party this Sunday at 1:00PM for those who can make it by.
Football
CU Buffs
I am emotionally spent by this season. It has just been exhausting, so many hopes dashed. And having another top recruit fail to succeed and transfer was just the topping on this crap sandwich of a season. I know the team and coaching team have to remain optimistic and act like everything will turn around, but I just don't see it. I will be surprised if we win another game this season. yuck...
Ole Miss Rebels
Oh yeah I forgot this is Ole Miss, not a real football school. Ole Miss doesn't contend in the SEC West, no matter how good they look. Another disappointment, more disappointing than CU in that the expectations were so much higher. It just goes to show you how important continuity is in a program, and really appreciate how good the top programs and coaches really are. You would think they can at least insure another bowl game this week against Northern Arizona.
St. Louis Rams
I can guarantee you the Rams will not lose this week... They have a bye. 1-7 is not what I hoped for this season, but if there is such a thing as 1-7 with a bullet it would be the Rams. I think the worst may be behind the team, there is a sense that while the talent is still no where close, there are good things starting to happen.
Denver Broncos
So Monday Night is the game for the season for the new coach. How does he get the team to handle it's first loss? And how does he defeat the blueprint that was clearly shown by the Ravens on how to beat the Broncos? Big time, tough questions. Should be interesting to watch. I am not sure we will have all of the answers, but a home game, even against the Steelers, should help restore some of the luster.
Weekend Plans
Daddy Hours
Week two of the Daddy Hours tomorrow. Daniel has said he wants to play Lego's he wants to know how to build a car. James wasn't sure what he wanted to do the last I checked. This is where this new 'tradition' will really start in. The first week 2 weeks ago was more of a test run. This week marks the start of 2 months of these weekends, so we should see if the idea has any staying power.
Kim's Party
Not trying to sound like a whiner but I am a little frustrated. I know Kim is not as social I am, and doesn't have as large a circle of friends as I do. But I try to arrange parties for her, and it rarely works out. I initially planned for a Saturday night so people could hang out later, play games etc. like she really enjoys. But a number of people said they had plans. So I moved it, and now even more people are unable to make it! It's frustrating. Again I know Kim just isn't that social, and to be honest she probably won't care so long as her family shows up. But it is still annoying to me that we make efforts to accept pretty much every social invitation for family style events (kids allowed, we don't do much 'adult' events because we don't drink so those types of parties tend to bore us), and there is not much in the way of reciprocity. But anyway we are having her birthday party this Sunday at 1:00PM for those who can make it by.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Happy Birthday Kim
Happy Happy Birthday
A special super happy birthday to my goofy girl. It has been 14 wonderful years since I met you and I cannot imagine a life without you in it. You are a wonderful wife, partner and friend. A loving and great mother to our children, a man could not ask for more. We have been through good times and bad, and my love remains as strong as ever. I know the last year was a rough one for you family, but your love and your strength has helped us all get through it. Here's wishing and hoping the next one will be so much better.
Mike
Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Wednesday TV + Other thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
Wow, just amazing, what a great way to build the story lines around a major true event like the Kennedy Assassination. Oddly the only other time I can think of any TV show working with something like this was a Jefferson's episode dealing with the King assassination. But that's another issue. This show just does a great job of maintaining it's expectations episode after episode. I can only imagine how it would have felt to have had a major event like that intrude on your life. I guess I can come close with one of my best friends getting married the weekend after 9/11, that was a pretty amazing time, and the closest modern parallel to the Kennedy Assassination.
As far as the events in the show, nothing really moved along except that veryone's favorite weasel might actually show some backbone and his own form of integrity and leave the agency, to which I reply: yeah go for it!. And of course the Draper drama. When Betty stood up and told Don she just doesn't love him anymore, and then you see Don just walk alone into his room and sit down it is was just amazing. He has seen his life just collapse over the last couple of episodes, a collapse that mirrors the shock of major events in the world. And you see him being forced to cope with everything seemingly spinning out of control, which is so unlike Don that it must be a huge shock. Just amazing work and acting.
Big Bang Theory
Love this show, especially this episode. The whole idea of someone who knows nothing about football trying to figure it out so he can fit in is so cool. And then the lines from Sheldon where he explains he's from Texas, of course he understands football, the whole scene wit that was so cool. Ending with him picking up Football for Dummies, looking at it and tossing it aside in disgust is just so picture perfect with what you can imagine Sheldon's father was like when dealing with him. This is such a fun show. And the character of Sheldon is so funny. Of course it makes it funny that I happen to have an old and dear friends who has some very similar mannerisms to that character.
Politics
Well I can't exactly say I was surprised by the election results here in Colorado Springs yesterday. Doesn't mean that I am happy, in fact I am pretty mad about it, but not surprised. We (liberals, progressives, Democrats etc.) really need to find a new paradigm, a new way of framing any argument that involves taxes. Because the gut instinct of anyone in this country now, after a generation of Republican-Conservative brainwashing/propaganda is that Taxes = bad, evil etc. It doesn't matter who is getting taxed, or where that money goes or even how much real money is being given to the government. The bottom line is that if you take a random poll the simple question: would you ever vote to increase taxes? The answer will be no 6 or 7 times out of 10. (These are non-scientific numbers of course). It doesn't matter what that tax money will go to, you could tell people that if they pay 10$ a year in additional taxes they will all get a free big screen TV, there will always be some portion of people whose response will be Hell No, don't you dare raise my taxes.
And I think that is exactly what happened here in Colorado Springs. We were asked to pay what really amounted to a small additional amount of taxes, taxes that not everyone in the city would pay, to pay for nice parks, bus service, and efficient responsive Fire and Law Enforcement service. And the reaction was: "It's just scare tactics, how dare the city government ask me for more money!?" I think that people have been educated to react to any request for money from the government with a response of Hell No.
So my response is that until we can re-educate people that government <> waste my feeling is that we will get what we pay for. And the next time I hear anyone complain about a lack of city services: snow plows, slow fire response, trashed parks, poor schools my response will be that they are getting what they are paying for. I feel like I live somewhere with only 1 restaurant. And restaurant management will limit the wait staff and menu options and cleanliness until the customers are willing to pay higher prices. So even though I am willing to pay for it, until the majority of the customers agree we are all stuck with crappy service.
I love my home town, but there are many times I feel like the character in the Bruce Springsteen song. It is my home, I couldn't leave it even if I wanted to. But damn there sure are time when the people here make it real hard to love any more.
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
Wow, just amazing, what a great way to build the story lines around a major true event like the Kennedy Assassination. Oddly the only other time I can think of any TV show working with something like this was a Jefferson's episode dealing with the King assassination. But that's another issue. This show just does a great job of maintaining it's expectations episode after episode. I can only imagine how it would have felt to have had a major event like that intrude on your life. I guess I can come close with one of my best friends getting married the weekend after 9/11, that was a pretty amazing time, and the closest modern parallel to the Kennedy Assassination.
As far as the events in the show, nothing really moved along except that veryone's favorite weasel might actually show some backbone and his own form of integrity and leave the agency, to which I reply: yeah go for it!. And of course the Draper drama. When Betty stood up and told Don she just doesn't love him anymore, and then you see Don just walk alone into his room and sit down it is was just amazing. He has seen his life just collapse over the last couple of episodes, a collapse that mirrors the shock of major events in the world. And you see him being forced to cope with everything seemingly spinning out of control, which is so unlike Don that it must be a huge shock. Just amazing work and acting.
Big Bang Theory
Love this show, especially this episode. The whole idea of someone who knows nothing about football trying to figure it out so he can fit in is so cool. And then the lines from Sheldon where he explains he's from Texas, of course he understands football, the whole scene wit that was so cool. Ending with him picking up Football for Dummies, looking at it and tossing it aside in disgust is just so picture perfect with what you can imagine Sheldon's father was like when dealing with him. This is such a fun show. And the character of Sheldon is so funny. Of course it makes it funny that I happen to have an old and dear friends who has some very similar mannerisms to that character.
Politics
Well I can't exactly say I was surprised by the election results here in Colorado Springs yesterday. Doesn't mean that I am happy, in fact I am pretty mad about it, but not surprised. We (liberals, progressives, Democrats etc.) really need to find a new paradigm, a new way of framing any argument that involves taxes. Because the gut instinct of anyone in this country now, after a generation of Republican-Conservative brainwashing/propaganda is that Taxes = bad, evil etc. It doesn't matter who is getting taxed, or where that money goes or even how much real money is being given to the government. The bottom line is that if you take a random poll the simple question: would you ever vote to increase taxes? The answer will be no 6 or 7 times out of 10. (These are non-scientific numbers of course). It doesn't matter what that tax money will go to, you could tell people that if they pay 10$ a year in additional taxes they will all get a free big screen TV, there will always be some portion of people whose response will be Hell No, don't you dare raise my taxes.
And I think that is exactly what happened here in Colorado Springs. We were asked to pay what really amounted to a small additional amount of taxes, taxes that not everyone in the city would pay, to pay for nice parks, bus service, and efficient responsive Fire and Law Enforcement service. And the reaction was: "It's just scare tactics, how dare the city government ask me for more money!?" I think that people have been educated to react to any request for money from the government with a response of Hell No.
So my response is that until we can re-educate people that government <> waste my feeling is that we will get what we pay for. And the next time I hear anyone complain about a lack of city services: snow plows, slow fire response, trashed parks, poor schools my response will be that they are getting what they are paying for. I feel like I live somewhere with only 1 restaurant. And restaurant management will limit the wait staff and menu options and cleanliness until the customers are willing to pay higher prices. So even though I am willing to pay for it, until the majority of the customers agree we are all stuck with crappy service.
I love my home town, but there are many times I feel like the character in the Bruce Springsteen song. It is my home, I couldn't leave it even if I wanted to. But damn there sure are time when the people here make it real hard to love any more.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
Catching Up + Football Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Yesterday work got pretty busy so I didn't get around to writing a post. There's a lot to cover what with the 4 day weekend, 2 days of football, new book, another birthday party etc. Plus sick kids, and future plans, yep lots to cover so here goes.
Family
The boys had 2 days off from school, ostensibly for parent-teacher conferences, so I had taken those days off, then Kim did so as well so we ended up with a 4 day family vacation of sorts. Due to the weather and other factors we went ahead and put Emily in Day Care like normal on Thursday & Friday. Thursday we took the boys to the Mall, for some wandering around, play time, lunch and a movie (AstroBoy, which was a fun kids movie). Friday we went down to the Mall for some racquetball followed by some swimming with the boys and a lunch at the Depot. So the boys got 2 fun days with Mom & Dad, with no kid sister to bother them.
Saturday of course was Halloween, we had a relaxing morning. Then walked down to Old Colorado City for their Trick or Treat deal, then walked back. Which was nice, the weather made that very bearable. Then we had a little time at home before we went over to Connie's to do the Trick or Treat in her neighborhood and finally got home. It was a fun day, albeit a little long, the kids all had a good time trick or treating and we ended up with 3 large bowls of candy, 1 for each kid. It is funny I just don't have much recollection of doing much trick or treating growing up, for a variety of reasons I guess we just didn't do it that much. While Kim apparently was trick or treating up until her late teens.
Sunday was Emily's birthday party, which we prepared for by cleaning house, and then gathering leaves in the yard (taking advantage of the time change and the extra hour). Leaving us ready by 11 when the Bronco game started, which unfortunately soured my mood for a couple of hours (more on the game later). The party went well over all I think Emily enjoyed herself and the presents. Plus we were able to get in some real low key family football, which was fun.
Sunday night after we had been asleep for a couple of hours were awoken by Daniel throwing up, which meant cleanup etc. and he stayed home with Kim, and rode with her and Emily to Emily's 2 year checkup, where Emily got 2 shots. Leaving Kim home with 2 sick/grouchy kids the rest of the day. Daniel stayed with Grandpa Pete today, more a precaution than anything else (thanks for the Super Grandpa duty Dad!), but Emily returned to Day Care today, making the transition to the next age group as she just passed her 2nd birthday.
So it was an eventful and busy long weekend, but fun for everyone. We host Kim's birthday party this coming weekend and slowly get back to normal, just in time for Thanksgiving...
Football
CU Buffs
Well I tried to watch the game on Saturday, but every time I turned the channel over Missouri was scoring so I decided to avoid the game in the interests of sanity. It's just real depressing at this point. It is just a general failure all the way through the program: talent level (poor recruiting), inept play (bad coaching), mistakes (poor execution). I am pretty discouraged, I just hope that all of the rah rah, life lesson high education standards are taking hold because it isn't a lot of fun to root for a crappy team.
Ole Miss Rebels
Talk about a fall from grace. A preseason Top 10 to wondering if they can even make a bowl game. This is part of the overall trend this year on how crucial chemistry and coaching are in college football. Because there are a lot of top teams that have not been able to recover from losses to graduation, and the whole complexion of the season has changed as a result of that. And Ole Miss is a prime example as the few players they lost have just blown the whole season.
Denver Broncos
Well I kind of thought they might lose this game. But that didn't make it any easier to watch. It was just a painful game to watch, because it felt like we were in it until all of a sudden I realized we were not in it any more, just a strange game to watch. I just hope this doesn't result in a losing streak. This is where the new coach will really make his bones, how does he and the staff handle this? I just don't know if this loss exposed a major flaw in the team or if it was just a one time thing. We'll know better this coming week.
St. Louis Rams
If you had told me the Rams and Broncos could not win in the same weekend for the entire season I would have not been happy but accepted it. And to be honest if you had then told me that meant the Broncos would be 6-1 and the Rams 1-7 I guess that would have been easier to swallow than 4-3 and 3-5 for example. So the Rams finally got that win, there is hope for the future. Which is what this season is all about: setting up for the future.
The Sports Guy
So I used a birthday gift to buy The Book of Basketball by Bill Simmons. Simmons is one of my favorite sports writers, and the reason I didn't buy his first book is I really don't like baseball enough to buy a baseball book. But I like basketball and the NBA so I was looking forward to this one. And so far it has not disappointed. It is a really good book, very informative and definitely well researched.
I only have 2 problems with it so far, one is easier to overcome than the other. I have gotten used to the unabashed Boston Sports Rule! bias of his columns, and to be honest you can't write the 'definitive' book on the NBA without dealing with the Celtics (like it or not, it would be like writing a book about college basketball and leaving out UCLA and John Wooden). Since I am still just starting it I still have not uncovered the reason for his antipathy towards one of my heroes though, I just don't get the Kareem bashing. I never have gotten why some people dislike Kareem, it's like Simmons is that little kid in Airplane.
But those problems aside I heartily endorse this book to anyone who has ever followed the NBA. It is definitely a work of love by someone who genuinely loves basketball and the NBA specifically.
Yesterday work got pretty busy so I didn't get around to writing a post. There's a lot to cover what with the 4 day weekend, 2 days of football, new book, another birthday party etc. Plus sick kids, and future plans, yep lots to cover so here goes.
Family
The boys had 2 days off from school, ostensibly for parent-teacher conferences, so I had taken those days off, then Kim did so as well so we ended up with a 4 day family vacation of sorts. Due to the weather and other factors we went ahead and put Emily in Day Care like normal on Thursday & Friday. Thursday we took the boys to the Mall, for some wandering around, play time, lunch and a movie (AstroBoy, which was a fun kids movie). Friday we went down to the Mall for some racquetball followed by some swimming with the boys and a lunch at the Depot. So the boys got 2 fun days with Mom & Dad, with no kid sister to bother them.
Saturday of course was Halloween, we had a relaxing morning. Then walked down to Old Colorado City for their Trick or Treat deal, then walked back. Which was nice, the weather made that very bearable. Then we had a little time at home before we went over to Connie's to do the Trick or Treat in her neighborhood and finally got home. It was a fun day, albeit a little long, the kids all had a good time trick or treating and we ended up with 3 large bowls of candy, 1 for each kid. It is funny I just don't have much recollection of doing much trick or treating growing up, for a variety of reasons I guess we just didn't do it that much. While Kim apparently was trick or treating up until her late teens.
Sunday was Emily's birthday party, which we prepared for by cleaning house, and then gathering leaves in the yard (taking advantage of the time change and the extra hour). Leaving us ready by 11 when the Bronco game started, which unfortunately soured my mood for a couple of hours (more on the game later). The party went well over all I think Emily enjoyed herself and the presents. Plus we were able to get in some real low key family football, which was fun.
Sunday night after we had been asleep for a couple of hours were awoken by Daniel throwing up, which meant cleanup etc. and he stayed home with Kim, and rode with her and Emily to Emily's 2 year checkup, where Emily got 2 shots. Leaving Kim home with 2 sick/grouchy kids the rest of the day. Daniel stayed with Grandpa Pete today, more a precaution than anything else (thanks for the Super Grandpa duty Dad!), but Emily returned to Day Care today, making the transition to the next age group as she just passed her 2nd birthday.
So it was an eventful and busy long weekend, but fun for everyone. We host Kim's birthday party this coming weekend and slowly get back to normal, just in time for Thanksgiving...
Football
CU Buffs
Well I tried to watch the game on Saturday, but every time I turned the channel over Missouri was scoring so I decided to avoid the game in the interests of sanity. It's just real depressing at this point. It is just a general failure all the way through the program: talent level (poor recruiting), inept play (bad coaching), mistakes (poor execution). I am pretty discouraged, I just hope that all of the rah rah, life lesson high education standards are taking hold because it isn't a lot of fun to root for a crappy team.
Ole Miss Rebels
Talk about a fall from grace. A preseason Top 10 to wondering if they can even make a bowl game. This is part of the overall trend this year on how crucial chemistry and coaching are in college football. Because there are a lot of top teams that have not been able to recover from losses to graduation, and the whole complexion of the season has changed as a result of that. And Ole Miss is a prime example as the few players they lost have just blown the whole season.
Denver Broncos
Well I kind of thought they might lose this game. But that didn't make it any easier to watch. It was just a painful game to watch, because it felt like we were in it until all of a sudden I realized we were not in it any more, just a strange game to watch. I just hope this doesn't result in a losing streak. This is where the new coach will really make his bones, how does he and the staff handle this? I just don't know if this loss exposed a major flaw in the team or if it was just a one time thing. We'll know better this coming week.
St. Louis Rams
If you had told me the Rams and Broncos could not win in the same weekend for the entire season I would have not been happy but accepted it. And to be honest if you had then told me that meant the Broncos would be 6-1 and the Rams 1-7 I guess that would have been easier to swallow than 4-3 and 3-5 for example. So the Rams finally got that win, there is hope for the future. Which is what this season is all about: setting up for the future.
The Sports Guy
So I used a birthday gift to buy The Book of Basketball by Bill Simmons. Simmons is one of my favorite sports writers, and the reason I didn't buy his first book is I really don't like baseball enough to buy a baseball book. But I like basketball and the NBA so I was looking forward to this one. And so far it has not disappointed. It is a really good book, very informative and definitely well researched.
I only have 2 problems with it so far, one is easier to overcome than the other. I have gotten used to the unabashed Boston Sports Rule! bias of his columns, and to be honest you can't write the 'definitive' book on the NBA without dealing with the Celtics (like it or not, it would be like writing a book about college basketball and leaving out UCLA and John Wooden). Since I am still just starting it I still have not uncovered the reason for his antipathy towards one of my heroes though, I just don't get the Kareem bashing. I never have gotten why some people dislike Kareem, it's like Simmons is that little kid in Airplane.
But those problems aside I heartily endorse this book to anyone who has ever followed the NBA. It is definitely a work of love by someone who genuinely loves basketball and the NBA specifically.
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Wednesday TV + Other thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
I just came in from my daily 1.5 mile walk, today in the freezing cold and wind. And I decided that reaffirmed a) my dedication to getting fit and, b) I am really getting into the habit of daily exercise. Which caused me to ponder why I am doing this. This morning I had an epiphany of sorts as far as why I am doing this exercise/eating change: it is so I can be a better father. I want to feel better physically, and be healthier in general, but the thing that really drives me in this is a desire to be a better dad, and part of that is being physically active so I can play games etc, have more energy and so on. So yes, it is about me, being selfish about being there for the kids and being able to be a part of their lives.
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
Wow, what an episode! Betty just handled that perfectly, like an expert prosecutor. And Jon Hamm did a great job of showing how a Don Draper would react to knowing that his deepest darkest secrets and shameful deeds were exposed. This wasn't like Pete tried to expose Don to Bert Cooper, there was an audience of sorts then, this was vastly different. And this was one of the few episodes where I actually Liked Roger, thought he did the right thing, and just handled that situation perfectly.
And poor Joan, she gets up the nerve to get her poor sap of a husband to wake up and do right by her, like she expected when they got married. And he turns her into an Army wife! It's just another turn in that cycle, although maybe Roger will rescue her...
Just a fascinating show, keeps me on my toes every week.
Heroes
I know I said the show was dead to me but I was watching some of it with Kim this week. And it just continues to be horrible, no good, very bad. I don't give a damn about any of the characters, even Sylar is boring as boring can be. Even the underplayed sexual tension with Claire fails to grab my attention (and that means a lot).
Family
So I have the next 2 days off, which totals up to a 4 day weekend. So I might be off the radar a bit. I have pledged to avoid talk of work for the next couple of days as much as possible, along with Kim. We'll try to have some cheap fun with the boys and enjoy the time as much as possible. So the only real update will be on the Loopt feed.
I just came in from my daily 1.5 mile walk, today in the freezing cold and wind. And I decided that reaffirmed a) my dedication to getting fit and, b) I am really getting into the habit of daily exercise. Which caused me to ponder why I am doing this. This morning I had an epiphany of sorts as far as why I am doing this exercise/eating change: it is so I can be a better father. I want to feel better physically, and be healthier in general, but the thing that really drives me in this is a desire to be a better dad, and part of that is being physically active so I can play games etc, have more energy and so on. So yes, it is about me, being selfish about being there for the kids and being able to be a part of their lives.
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
Wow, what an episode! Betty just handled that perfectly, like an expert prosecutor. And Jon Hamm did a great job of showing how a Don Draper would react to knowing that his deepest darkest secrets and shameful deeds were exposed. This wasn't like Pete tried to expose Don to Bert Cooper, there was an audience of sorts then, this was vastly different. And this was one of the few episodes where I actually Liked Roger, thought he did the right thing, and just handled that situation perfectly.
And poor Joan, she gets up the nerve to get her poor sap of a husband to wake up and do right by her, like she expected when they got married. And he turns her into an Army wife! It's just another turn in that cycle, although maybe Roger will rescue her...
Just a fascinating show, keeps me on my toes every week.
Heroes
I know I said the show was dead to me but I was watching some of it with Kim this week. And it just continues to be horrible, no good, very bad. I don't give a damn about any of the characters, even Sylar is boring as boring can be. Even the underplayed sexual tension with Claire fails to grab my attention (and that means a lot).
Family
So I have the next 2 days off, which totals up to a 4 day weekend. So I might be off the radar a bit. I have pledged to avoid talk of work for the next couple of days as much as possible, along with Kim. We'll try to have some cheap fun with the boys and enjoy the time as much as possible. So the only real update will be on the Loopt feed.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
Happy Birthday Emily
HAPPY BIRTHDAY EMILY MAE!It seems like just last night that Kim woke me up with the declaration: "Just like the other kids!" Which was her way of announcing that her water had just broke. So off to the hospital and a few hours later there you were, little Emily Mae.
What a wonder and a joy you have been! And what an education too! You certainly have your very own unique girl personality, for better or worse. It's been a wonderful 2 years, and I look forward to all the many more!
Monday, October 26, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Overall a good weekend, albeit somewhat stressful as we continue to play the waiting game on the strike news. The Daddy hours went okay, I enjoyed the time at least, and I think the boys did too. I overindulged in football on Saturday, but basically watched none on Sunday (bye weeks will do that). We got to watch a couple of movies and otherwise just relax in the evenings, which was nice.
Daddy hours
James and I attempted to play some Bakugan first, but I don't think we did it right so we stopped fairly quickly. Then we sat down and played a couple of games of Othello. James seemed to enjoy playing a new game, he took to it fairly well, although he had a harder time grasping the strategy, so he actually played worse after I explained it to him. Daniel and I took advantage of the nice weather and played/wrestled on the trampoline for our time, which also neatly doubled as my work out for the day. I know James would have liked more time, but it was nice none the less. And I know Daniel enjoyed our time. So I think this will be something I keep moving forward with.
The boys cannot complain we didn't focus on them in general this weekend as we took them to Fall Carnival on Friday night, then to a friends birthday party on Sunday. They had a good time at both. Although the birthday party was a little chaotic, we pitched in to wrangle the kids, it gets tough to handle 8-12 active boys in the 4-9 age range. But that just comes with the territory and helps remind us all why we aren't teachers...
Football Thoughts
CU Buffs
Well if I had a toe on the bandwagon it sure jumped off real damn quick after this weekend. I didn't watch or listen to the game, but from the recaps all I can think is that someone needs to put Coach Hawkins on notice for next year that there needs to be some improvement. Why exactly was Cody in the game when h threw the 2 interceptions? I watched bits of the Iowa State-Nebraska game and all I can say is all that won that game was tough defense and mistake free offense. Why can't we play that simple formula? Arrgh, it is a tough year for Colorado football at the college level that's for sure.
Ole Miss Rebels
We got the home win against Arkansas that we needed. Now it just remains to keep the momentum from the last 2 weeks going when we play this week. I worry a little about Snead throwing 2 interceptions, but at least he also got 2 scores and we moved the ball, to complement the defense. Considering 1 of the Arkansas scores came on a fluke play I think the defense is where it needs to be as the schedule shifts.
St. Louis Rams
Once again we were reminded of exactly how far the Rams have to go before they can even get respectable again in the NFL. A ridiculously low talent level, plus some occasional poor coaching/management decisions. I know it is a rebuilding year, and the Colts are one of the top teams in the NFL, but is it too much to ask them to put up a fight? I still think that a franchise QB should be the top priority in the draft, because a top QB can make average receivers look good.
Overall a good weekend, albeit somewhat stressful as we continue to play the waiting game on the strike news. The Daddy hours went okay, I enjoyed the time at least, and I think the boys did too. I overindulged in football on Saturday, but basically watched none on Sunday (bye weeks will do that). We got to watch a couple of movies and otherwise just relax in the evenings, which was nice.
Daddy hours
James and I attempted to play some Bakugan first, but I don't think we did it right so we stopped fairly quickly. Then we sat down and played a couple of games of Othello. James seemed to enjoy playing a new game, he took to it fairly well, although he had a harder time grasping the strategy, so he actually played worse after I explained it to him. Daniel and I took advantage of the nice weather and played/wrestled on the trampoline for our time, which also neatly doubled as my work out for the day. I know James would have liked more time, but it was nice none the less. And I know Daniel enjoyed our time. So I think this will be something I keep moving forward with.
The boys cannot complain we didn't focus on them in general this weekend as we took them to Fall Carnival on Friday night, then to a friends birthday party on Sunday. They had a good time at both. Although the birthday party was a little chaotic, we pitched in to wrangle the kids, it gets tough to handle 8-12 active boys in the 4-9 age range. But that just comes with the territory and helps remind us all why we aren't teachers...
Football Thoughts
CU Buffs
Well if I had a toe on the bandwagon it sure jumped off real damn quick after this weekend. I didn't watch or listen to the game, but from the recaps all I can think is that someone needs to put Coach Hawkins on notice for next year that there needs to be some improvement. Why exactly was Cody in the game when h threw the 2 interceptions? I watched bits of the Iowa State-Nebraska game and all I can say is all that won that game was tough defense and mistake free offense. Why can't we play that simple formula? Arrgh, it is a tough year for Colorado football at the college level that's for sure.
Ole Miss Rebels
We got the home win against Arkansas that we needed. Now it just remains to keep the momentum from the last 2 weeks going when we play this week. I worry a little about Snead throwing 2 interceptions, but at least he also got 2 scores and we moved the ball, to complement the defense. Considering 1 of the Arkansas scores came on a fluke play I think the defense is where it needs to be as the schedule shifts.
St. Louis Rams
Once again we were reminded of exactly how far the Rams have to go before they can even get respectable again in the NFL. A ridiculously low talent level, plus some occasional poor coaching/management decisions. I know it is a rebuilding year, and the Colts are one of the top teams in the NFL, but is it too much to ask them to put up a fight? I still think that a franchise QB should be the top priority in the draft, because a top QB can make average receivers look good.
Friday, October 23, 2009
Weekend Plans + Football Friday + TV Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
So much to talk about today. While it isn't official yet it appears that the strike/lockout will occur any day now. Which of course has set me on a stress filled binge of anger the second half of the week. Coupled with extra work at week due to some people being out ill this week has not ended well. I am very ready for the weekend, and next week is a short week for me, so I've got that going for me. Tomorrow I will try to implement my Daddy Hours with James and Daniel. Sunday is another child's birthday party (not one of ours, a friend from school). But otherwise it should be a relatively relaxed weekend.
Football Friday
Colorado Buffaloes
Well Hansen mania may be upon us if the Buffs can pull off another big victory. I'm not holding my breath of course, I am not 100% convinced we have turned the corner. But if we do win, and put together a string of victories the big question facing the coaching staff is why didn't they make the change earlier? But I think they would rather have that question than another lost season in the never ending rebuilding phase.
Ole Miss
Aside from this embarrassing development the only thing that has really bothered me this year about the Rebs was almost predictable when you lose a top 10 First round offensive tackle to the NFL. They just don't have the offensive line strength they had last year which is really killing Snead. I can hope that they use another Arkansas game as a spring board to another big run. I don't know though if they can get their act together offensively this quickly, but I will hope that they can use home field to at least beat the Hogs and get some momentum for the end of the season.
St. Louis Rams
Wow, the Colts this week. Talk about potential for a beat down of epic proportions. I think one of the funnier things I read about this game was when Peter King said that if Manning has a really bad game that he will cease all mentions of Starbucks and Red Sox in his column, if that isn't motivation enough I don't know what it will take... The other humorous thing was when they had an article in the St. Louis paper asking the columnists which college Quarterback they would draft and almost to a man (or woman) they all said they wouldn't draft a quarterback. Of all the weeks, facing the Colts and Peyton Manning should be a reminder about how much a franchise quarterback can do for your team, no matter how bad he might be at the start. A franchise quarterback is just huge when you are in total rebuilding mode like the Rams.
TV Thoughts
Finally caught up on Mad Men, House, NCIS etc. for the week. Here's some quick thoughts:
Mad Men
If there's any one thing Mad Men does, it never fails to make sure that people realize that for all of his cool and suave attitude Don Draper is at heart a real bastard. I really liked most of this weeks episode and find myself really interested in how things end up, will Betty figure out a way to make Don really pay, or will she end up making yet another Devil's compromise in the face of the ever persuasive Don? And just how will he escape, or will he just cut and run on everything, return to being Dick Whitman and run off to California to start over?
House
I liked the PotW, and how the little mystery of Wilson and his old girlfriend worked out. But I am less than interested in what happens with Chase, I would almost rather deal with Foreteen again (almost).
NCIS
With the exception of the Simpsons I pretty much universally dislike Halloween episodes like this one. I find them even more contrived than normal. This weeks episode was interesting, but still would rather have to deal with a normal week than this.
NCIS: LA
This show is really starting to grow on me. The chemistry of Chris O'Donnell and LL Cool J is very good. And Heddy is just cool. I also really like that this show deal with very different cases than the regular NCIS. This one is a lot more spy action thriller, like fighting an international assassin. And there is a different emphasis in terms of less crime fighting an more action and high tech spy gadgets. Which makes it very cool, instead of following the model used in the regular NCIS.
So much to talk about today. While it isn't official yet it appears that the strike/lockout will occur any day now. Which of course has set me on a stress filled binge of anger the second half of the week. Coupled with extra work at week due to some people being out ill this week has not ended well. I am very ready for the weekend, and next week is a short week for me, so I've got that going for me. Tomorrow I will try to implement my Daddy Hours with James and Daniel. Sunday is another child's birthday party (not one of ours, a friend from school). But otherwise it should be a relatively relaxed weekend.
Football Friday
Colorado Buffaloes
Well Hansen mania may be upon us if the Buffs can pull off another big victory. I'm not holding my breath of course, I am not 100% convinced we have turned the corner. But if we do win, and put together a string of victories the big question facing the coaching staff is why didn't they make the change earlier? But I think they would rather have that question than another lost season in the never ending rebuilding phase.
Ole Miss
Aside from this embarrassing development the only thing that has really bothered me this year about the Rebs was almost predictable when you lose a top 10 First round offensive tackle to the NFL. They just don't have the offensive line strength they had last year which is really killing Snead. I can hope that they use another Arkansas game as a spring board to another big run. I don't know though if they can get their act together offensively this quickly, but I will hope that they can use home field to at least beat the Hogs and get some momentum for the end of the season.
St. Louis Rams
Wow, the Colts this week. Talk about potential for a beat down of epic proportions. I think one of the funnier things I read about this game was when Peter King said that if Manning has a really bad game that he will cease all mentions of Starbucks and Red Sox in his column, if that isn't motivation enough I don't know what it will take... The other humorous thing was when they had an article in the St. Louis paper asking the columnists which college Quarterback they would draft and almost to a man (or woman) they all said they wouldn't draft a quarterback. Of all the weeks, facing the Colts and Peyton Manning should be a reminder about how much a franchise quarterback can do for your team, no matter how bad he might be at the start. A franchise quarterback is just huge when you are in total rebuilding mode like the Rams.
TV Thoughts
Finally caught up on Mad Men, House, NCIS etc. for the week. Here's some quick thoughts:
Mad Men
If there's any one thing Mad Men does, it never fails to make sure that people realize that for all of his cool and suave attitude Don Draper is at heart a real bastard. I really liked most of this weeks episode and find myself really interested in how things end up, will Betty figure out a way to make Don really pay, or will she end up making yet another Devil's compromise in the face of the ever persuasive Don? And just how will he escape, or will he just cut and run on everything, return to being Dick Whitman and run off to California to start over?
House
I liked the PotW, and how the little mystery of Wilson and his old girlfriend worked out. But I am less than interested in what happens with Chase, I would almost rather deal with Foreteen again (almost).
NCIS
With the exception of the Simpsons I pretty much universally dislike Halloween episodes like this one. I find them even more contrived than normal. This weeks episode was interesting, but still would rather have to deal with a normal week than this.
NCIS: LA
This show is really starting to grow on me. The chemistry of Chris O'Donnell and LL Cool J is very good. And Heddy is just cool. I also really like that this show deal with very different cases than the regular NCIS. This one is a lot more spy action thriller, like fighting an international assassin. And there is a different emphasis in terms of less crime fighting an more action and high tech spy gadgets. Which makes it very cool, instead of following the model used in the regular NCIS.
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Tuesday Thoughts + Football Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Feeling good about the start to the week as far as exercise & diet (of course it's only Tuesday...). Still kinda giddy from the Bronco game last night. Got a couple of good nights sleep so now feeling like I have fought off the plague for now. Looking forward to establishing the new weekend routine this coming weekend.
Football
Denver Broncos
Wow, as one guy I was talking to on Sunday said, I am officially ready to start drinking the kool aid and thinking we might actually make some big noise this year. How cool was that game? And how cool is it to hear the ESPN analysts mentioning the Broncos and Patriots and Broncos in the same breath when it's complimentary instead of comparing good v. bad? Here are my tweets from last nights game:
Walk done, time to watch the #Broncos game!
Maybe the #Broncos shouldn't blitz quite so freely or else this could be a long long night...
95 yards to the house for Royal, now that's what I'm talking about for the #Broncos
I'm not sure what the defensive scheme is for the #Broncos, but they had better make some adjustments...
Holy cow what a night for Royal already 2 TD returns for the #Broncos
Big 2 minute drill for Orton and #Broncos, get a score here and it's huge.
That was some horrid play at the end of the half for the #Broncos, why kick to Sproles? Still anyones game if we adjust on Defense
Time to do some channel jumping between #Broncos and #Big Bang Theory
Great #BigBangTheory, thank you @wilw, back to #Broncos, oh look we have the lead!
You can't stop Scheffler, you can only hope to control him for the #Broncos, big challenge here...
Let's not get too relaxed on Defense and get this one done #Broncos
That's it, time to crack open the kool-aid for your 6-0 unbeaten Denver #Broncos
Go #Broncos, do you believe it now? 6-0 and undefeated!
So that is the story of the season in a capsule so far, maybe not starting sharp, but keeping it close, bending but not breaking. Then a couple of big plays, followed by the masterful half time adjustments and boom! Next thing you know we have the lead! And it's never the same player or players. 2 weeks ago it was run game, then a couple of big plays by Marshall. Then against the Patriots it was the Royal and Marshall show. Last night it was Scheffler who shined. If there was ever one thing about the Patriots in their big run that I admired was the way that the team played smart, and it was never the same guys who made the difference. Which made it hard to game plan. And the same thing has happened so far for the Broncos.
Feeling good about the start to the week as far as exercise & diet (of course it's only Tuesday...). Still kinda giddy from the Bronco game last night. Got a couple of good nights sleep so now feeling like I have fought off the plague for now. Looking forward to establishing the new weekend routine this coming weekend.
Football
Denver Broncos
Wow, as one guy I was talking to on Sunday said, I am officially ready to start drinking the kool aid and thinking we might actually make some big noise this year. How cool was that game? And how cool is it to hear the ESPN analysts mentioning the Broncos and Patriots and Broncos in the same breath when it's complimentary instead of comparing good v. bad? Here are my tweets from last nights game:
Walk done, time to watch the #Broncos game!
Maybe the #Broncos shouldn't blitz quite so freely or else this could be a long long night...
95 yards to the house for Royal, now that's what I'm talking about for the #Broncos
I'm not sure what the defensive scheme is for the #Broncos, but they had better make some adjustments...
Holy cow what a night for Royal already 2 TD returns for the #Broncos
Big 2 minute drill for Orton and #Broncos, get a score here and it's huge.
That was some horrid play at the end of the half for the #Broncos, why kick to Sproles? Still anyones game if we adjust on Defense
Time to do some channel jumping between #Broncos and #Big Bang Theory
Great #BigBangTheory, thank you @wilw, back to #Broncos, oh look we have the lead!
You can't stop Scheffler, you can only hope to control him for the #Broncos, big challenge here...
Let's not get too relaxed on Defense and get this one done #Broncos
That's it, time to crack open the kool-aid for your 6-0 unbeaten Denver #Broncos
Go #Broncos, do you believe it now? 6-0 and undefeated!
So that is the story of the season in a capsule so far, maybe not starting sharp, but keeping it close, bending but not breaking. Then a couple of big plays, followed by the masterful half time adjustments and boom! Next thing you know we have the lead! And it's never the same player or players. 2 weeks ago it was run game, then a couple of big plays by Marshall. Then against the Patriots it was the Royal and Marshall show. Last night it was Scheffler who shined. If there was ever one thing about the Patriots in their big run that I admired was the way that the team played smart, and it was never the same guys who made the difference. Which made it hard to game plan. And the same thing has happened so far for the Broncos.
Monday, October 19, 2009
Weekend Recap + Football thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Weekend Recap
Another good weekend, with Kim off both days again, I could get used to seeing my wife for 2 days in a row... oh well. The last day of soccer went well, with the addition of a stop at the library. We had a good time at a friends party Saturday night. Then James' Lego party went very well, followed by a neighborhood party. Over all it was an excellent weekend, in keeping with the weather (got to wear shorts 2 days in a row again!.
The boys soccer season ended on a high note as Daniel again played well and had a good time. He still isn't as excited about playing soccer as James, but he enjoyed himself. James ended with a double header and they were able to complete the season undefeated, with a tie in the last game, a game they would have won save for the exhaustion of playing a double header. But it was a good season. And a good way to end as I think James will move up another level next season (assuming he wants to keep playing).
Saturday afternoon we went over to our friend Angela's for a pumpkin carving party/ pot luck. Which was fun, the kids had a good time racing around playing with the other kids their age. Carving the pumpkins was fun for all ages. And I got to enjoy a little pickup football/catch as well. One of the side benefits of all these kids getting older is I get a new group of kids to play football with...
Sunday was all about James' Lego party. Getting the house picked up, baking and decorating the cake. Then the party itself went well, with the kids who were able to attend having a good time. James just has a good group of kids to pal around with in the neighborhood and through soccer. It will be interesting to watch as they grow up together in the coming years. One of the parents was commenting on how this year and next summer there will be a lot more interaction as the kids all get more mobile and independent.
We then topped the day off by going to the neighborhood family barbecue. Which is usually fun for the kids as they get to race around with other kids. And there was good food again (as usual). So lots of fun and a very social weekend for us. October is usually very good for that, gets us out of the house and forces us to be social, which is not a bad thing.
Football Thoughts
Well College football treated me well. I got home in time to watch CU score the winning TD and then hold on for dear life in the face of the KU offensive juggernaut. Ole Miss pounded UAB as expected. Plus the hopes for a possible USC-Florida national championship are still alive. And of course Nebraska got pounded, which is some serious icing on the cake.
The Rams put up a valiant fight before losing in Overtime. I think they might actually pull out a game or 2 at some point this season as they get a little better each week. And of course tonight is the big game for the Broncos. Which has the added bonus of a reason to not watch Heroes.
Exercise
Well the week of laziness is over, back to regular walks and diet this week. Didn't do too much damage but feeling the lack of exercise. I sill don't know how I am going to resume the Couch to 5K workouts though with it getting dark so early. But if I can at least get in some walks every day and then maybe get to the Y for some treadmill work I should be getting my fair share.
Weekend Recap
Another good weekend, with Kim off both days again, I could get used to seeing my wife for 2 days in a row... oh well. The last day of soccer went well, with the addition of a stop at the library. We had a good time at a friends party Saturday night. Then James' Lego party went very well, followed by a neighborhood party. Over all it was an excellent weekend, in keeping with the weather (got to wear shorts 2 days in a row again!.
The boys soccer season ended on a high note as Daniel again played well and had a good time. He still isn't as excited about playing soccer as James, but he enjoyed himself. James ended with a double header and they were able to complete the season undefeated, with a tie in the last game, a game they would have won save for the exhaustion of playing a double header. But it was a good season. And a good way to end as I think James will move up another level next season (assuming he wants to keep playing).
Saturday afternoon we went over to our friend Angela's for a pumpkin carving party/ pot luck. Which was fun, the kids had a good time racing around playing with the other kids their age. Carving the pumpkins was fun for all ages. And I got to enjoy a little pickup football/catch as well. One of the side benefits of all these kids getting older is I get a new group of kids to play football with...
Sunday was all about James' Lego party. Getting the house picked up, baking and decorating the cake. Then the party itself went well, with the kids who were able to attend having a good time. James just has a good group of kids to pal around with in the neighborhood and through soccer. It will be interesting to watch as they grow up together in the coming years. One of the parents was commenting on how this year and next summer there will be a lot more interaction as the kids all get more mobile and independent.
We then topped the day off by going to the neighborhood family barbecue. Which is usually fun for the kids as they get to race around with other kids. And there was good food again (as usual). So lots of fun and a very social weekend for us. October is usually very good for that, gets us out of the house and forces us to be social, which is not a bad thing.
Football Thoughts
Well College football treated me well. I got home in time to watch CU score the winning TD and then hold on for dear life in the face of the KU offensive juggernaut. Ole Miss pounded UAB as expected. Plus the hopes for a possible USC-Florida national championship are still alive. And of course Nebraska got pounded, which is some serious icing on the cake.
The Rams put up a valiant fight before losing in Overtime. I think they might actually pull out a game or 2 at some point this season as they get a little better each week. And of course tonight is the big game for the Broncos. Which has the added bonus of a reason to not watch Heroes.
Exercise
Well the week of laziness is over, back to regular walks and diet this week. Didn't do too much damage but feeling the lack of exercise. I sill don't know how I am going to resume the Couch to 5K workouts though with it getting dark so early. But if I can at least get in some walks every day and then maybe get to the Y for some treadmill work I should be getting my fair share.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Future Weekend Plans + Football Friday
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
Football Friday
CU Buffs
Well at least there is a chance to put poor Cody out of our misery this weekend. I know Coach says he still might play but I think it might be best for all concerned if he stopped playing at this point. We get a chance to see if Hansen is the answer this week against a Kansas team that barely won a shootout with Iowa State so there is a chance the offense might finally see a spark. And it will need it because the KU offense is not a pushover so our improving defense will have to keep improving this week. I'm not holding my breath, in fact I still think that a 3 win season is the most I can expect right now. But it's a home game and maybe some home cooking will inspire the team to new heights.
Ole Miss Rebels
Crap, what was a promising season has completely disintegrated behind a mess of an offensive line. Snead has no time and no chance with that sorry excuse for blocking in front of him. And there is no running game either. So as good as the Defense has been, it can't win all the games. Maybe they can get a breather and recoup this weekend against UAB, because they are going to need it if they want to get into a bowl, forget the SEC West, that's done.
Denver Broncos
Big Monday night game against the Chargers. Road game, first time really favored this season, maybe getting some expectations. All of that versus a Charger team playing what amounts to a Must win game (must win this early in the season at least). All of that indicates that the Broncos might be in for a let down. But I think that may not happen here. What are the Chargers biggest problems this year? Trouble stopping the run and protecting the QB. What have been the 2 big strengths for the Broncos this year: run game, pass rush. Add in the coaching edge and I think we just might pull this one off.
St. Louis Rams
When the only reason people talk about your team is because a radio celebrity is possibly involved in buying the team it not a good sign. How low can the Rams go? I don't know at this point. I still think a Herschel Walker like trade of Steven Jackson might be a good thing for the future of the franchise and his career. That being said, there is the Any Given Sunday point, and when you are playing a team that just lost 41-0, you never know... ah who am I kidding, chalk up another loss for the Same Old Sorry Rams.
Family Plan
The boys soccer ends this weekend. And there won't be any more activities until January at least. So that leaves me with having to fill Saturday mornings. I have been reading a very interesting book: Fantasy Freaks and Gaming Geeks by Ethan Gilsdorf. Like the title says the book is an exploration of modern 'geek' culture. One of the things that struck me as I read the book was that while I have been known to wave my geek flag high I have not exactly been doing much to pass those things along to my kids. I know that James has developed a fascination with Star Wars, and Lego, but that's pretty much the standard for kids his age. I am talking about the real geek things: D&D, Warhammer, etc.
So I got it into my head that I might take some of this impending Saturday morning time to start educating James on these finder points of 'geekdom'. Then I thought about Daniel, would that be fair to him? Spending all that time focused on James. Then I remembered a fond memory from my childhood a practice my Dad termed 'free days'. Every year for our birthdays and/or Christmas Dad would grant each of us brothers a free day where we could do more or less whatever we wanted and he would foot the bill, drive etc.
Taking that as a guide my plan is to dedicate an hour to each boy (Emily just not being old enough to get much out of this) on Saturday mornings. For that hour the other kids will have to do their own thing (I'll try to focus the timing during nap time for Emily when possible). And the chosen kid will get an hour of my time to do what they want, within limits. I won't sit and watch cartoons for an hour or play computer or console games. But I will play other games, or teach them new games. It's a work in progress and we'll see how it goes, but I am actually kind of excited to see how it goes.
James is getting to the age where I can start teaching him lots of new games. So this could be a real learning experience for both of us. And to be honest it could be really good for me to spend an hour of time with Daniel doing something with him so we can both learn a little more about each other.
Football Friday
CU Buffs
Well at least there is a chance to put poor Cody out of our misery this weekend. I know Coach says he still might play but I think it might be best for all concerned if he stopped playing at this point. We get a chance to see if Hansen is the answer this week against a Kansas team that barely won a shootout with Iowa State so there is a chance the offense might finally see a spark. And it will need it because the KU offense is not a pushover so our improving defense will have to keep improving this week. I'm not holding my breath, in fact I still think that a 3 win season is the most I can expect right now. But it's a home game and maybe some home cooking will inspire the team to new heights.
Ole Miss Rebels
Crap, what was a promising season has completely disintegrated behind a mess of an offensive line. Snead has no time and no chance with that sorry excuse for blocking in front of him. And there is no running game either. So as good as the Defense has been, it can't win all the games. Maybe they can get a breather and recoup this weekend against UAB, because they are going to need it if they want to get into a bowl, forget the SEC West, that's done.
Denver Broncos
Big Monday night game against the Chargers. Road game, first time really favored this season, maybe getting some expectations. All of that versus a Charger team playing what amounts to a Must win game (must win this early in the season at least). All of that indicates that the Broncos might be in for a let down. But I think that may not happen here. What are the Chargers biggest problems this year? Trouble stopping the run and protecting the QB. What have been the 2 big strengths for the Broncos this year: run game, pass rush. Add in the coaching edge and I think we just might pull this one off.
St. Louis Rams
When the only reason people talk about your team is because a radio celebrity is possibly involved in buying the team it not a good sign. How low can the Rams go? I don't know at this point. I still think a Herschel Walker like trade of Steven Jackson might be a good thing for the future of the franchise and his career. That being said, there is the Any Given Sunday point, and when you are playing a team that just lost 41-0, you never know... ah who am I kidding, chalk up another loss for the Same Old Sorry Rams.
Family Plan
The boys soccer ends this weekend. And there won't be any more activities until January at least. So that leaves me with having to fill Saturday mornings. I have been reading a very interesting book: Fantasy Freaks and Gaming Geeks by Ethan Gilsdorf. Like the title says the book is an exploration of modern 'geek' culture. One of the things that struck me as I read the book was that while I have been known to wave my geek flag high I have not exactly been doing much to pass those things along to my kids. I know that James has developed a fascination with Star Wars, and Lego, but that's pretty much the standard for kids his age. I am talking about the real geek things: D&D, Warhammer, etc.
So I got it into my head that I might take some of this impending Saturday morning time to start educating James on these finder points of 'geekdom'. Then I thought about Daniel, would that be fair to him? Spending all that time focused on James. Then I remembered a fond memory from my childhood a practice my Dad termed 'free days'. Every year for our birthdays and/or Christmas Dad would grant each of us brothers a free day where we could do more or less whatever we wanted and he would foot the bill, drive etc.
Taking that as a guide my plan is to dedicate an hour to each boy (Emily just not being old enough to get much out of this) on Saturday mornings. For that hour the other kids will have to do their own thing (I'll try to focus the timing during nap time for Emily when possible). And the chosen kid will get an hour of my time to do what they want, within limits. I won't sit and watch cartoons for an hour or play computer or console games. But I will play other games, or teach them new games. It's a work in progress and we'll see how it goes, but I am actually kind of excited to see how it goes.
James is getting to the age where I can start teaching him lots of new games. So this could be a real learning experience for both of us. And to be honest it could be really good for me to spend an hour of time with Daniel doing something with him so we can both learn a little more about each other.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Report from the front + TV Thoughts
Dear James, Daniel and Emily,
So yesterday at lunch I was all rarin' to go to the Mall and spend some birthday money. So I was pulling my car out of a tight parking space, trying to avoid running over the curb or hit the car parked right next to me. And I was so focused on that that I didn't realize how close I was to the Semi-trailer parked in the parking lot for storage purposes. But I sure noticed it when I hit the stupid trailer, shattering the back window and denting the corner of the van. Stupid me, big careless mistake dammit. So the rest of the day was filled with calls to insurance company, taking van to the body shop, then making arrangements for people to get the boys and Emily the next couple of days since Kim will not have a car. There are times when I get tired of driving a minivan, and this was one of them, I have more problems backing them up (second time something along these lines has occurred).
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
I don't know what to make out this weeks episode. It was both good and infuriating. It didn't really accomplish a lot in the long run. Other than point out how childish and romantic Betty is and what an odd character Don is. I just think he is one of those guys who operates best when things are in flux and chaos, and has no real idea how to handle a stable life. And as a result he goes out and looks for trouble. Here are my quick thoughts:
Betty sure has some interesting dreams, looks like Don is smitten... #MadMen
Poor closeted Sal, and I thought Betty had put all that behind her (guess not). Lots of secrets on #MadMen...
Fire Sal? That's some quick cover up. Don's sippin' shine with Connie while Betty is this close to really doing it on #MadMen
Damn Don just cut poor Sal off at the knees, guess he had to do it but still. Watching Betty try & cover males me squirm #MadMen
Betty spurns and Don gets turned down there's a common theme her but I can't put my finger on it with #MadMen
Just when you almost feel sorry for Don. I can pretty much imagine where Sal was. Maybe Don gets his mojo back on #MadMen...
I think the central theme for this season is control, and how the characters react when control is taken out of their hands, either by just normal life changes,or other factors. Betty wants the control of a distant, romantic, fantasy affair, and when Harry intrudes on that by suggesting they make the fantasy a reality she quickly backs off, because that isn't what she wants. Don needs control, and as he is slowly losing it at work (witness the confrontation with Roger) he has to find another way to exert it. The preview from next week suggest that having that affair will restore Don's mojo to some extent.
Heroes
I know I said I wasn't going to watch but Kim wasn't ready to give up just yet so I stuck it out. And I was sorry I did, the story lines are still going no where that I can see. I just don't see the point in this mysterious Carnival or how it will all end. And more to the point I just don't care. To make a dramatic TV series interesting viewers must care about the characters on some level, and Heroes has reached that point.
House
Interesting episode, I am interested in the direction they are taking Chase. Although I think there is something larger at work here. The hacking of 13's email and the report that Foreman and Chase needed appearing oh so conveniently make me think that there is someone else doing something in the hospital. I do think they dropped the ball on an interesting tack with the POTW (patient of the week), but lately I wonder if they are putting enough energy into that part of the show. But to follow up my comments on Heroes, I am still interested in the characters on this show, so I want to know what happens next.
NCIS
Skipped these last night, so nothing new on them.
So yesterday at lunch I was all rarin' to go to the Mall and spend some birthday money. So I was pulling my car out of a tight parking space, trying to avoid running over the curb or hit the car parked right next to me. And I was so focused on that that I didn't realize how close I was to the Semi-trailer parked in the parking lot for storage purposes. But I sure noticed it when I hit the stupid trailer, shattering the back window and denting the corner of the van. Stupid me, big careless mistake dammit. So the rest of the day was filled with calls to insurance company, taking van to the body shop, then making arrangements for people to get the boys and Emily the next couple of days since Kim will not have a car. There are times when I get tired of driving a minivan, and this was one of them, I have more problems backing them up (second time something along these lines has occurred).
TV Thoughts
Mad Men
I don't know what to make out this weeks episode. It was both good and infuriating. It didn't really accomplish a lot in the long run. Other than point out how childish and romantic Betty is and what an odd character Don is. I just think he is one of those guys who operates best when things are in flux and chaos, and has no real idea how to handle a stable life. And as a result he goes out and looks for trouble. Here are my quick thoughts:
Betty sure has some interesting dreams, looks like Don is smitten... #MadMen
Poor closeted Sal, and I thought Betty had put all that behind her (guess not). Lots of secrets on #MadMen...
Fire Sal? That's some quick cover up. Don's sippin' shine with Connie while Betty is this close to really doing it on #MadMen
Damn Don just cut poor Sal off at the knees, guess he had to do it but still. Watching Betty try & cover males me squirm #MadMen
Betty spurns and Don gets turned down there's a common theme her but I can't put my finger on it with #MadMen
Just when you almost feel sorry for Don. I can pretty much imagine where Sal was. Maybe Don gets his mojo back on #MadMen...
I think the central theme for this season is control, and how the characters react when control is taken out of their hands, either by just normal life changes,or other factors. Betty wants the control of a distant, romantic, fantasy affair, and when Harry intrudes on that by suggesting they make the fantasy a reality she quickly backs off, because that isn't what she wants. Don needs control, and as he is slowly losing it at work (witness the confrontation with Roger) he has to find another way to exert it. The preview from next week suggest that having that affair will restore Don's mojo to some extent.
Heroes
I know I said I wasn't going to watch but Kim wasn't ready to give up just yet so I stuck it out. And I was sorry I did, the story lines are still going no where that I can see. I just don't see the point in this mysterious Carnival or how it will all end. And more to the point I just don't care. To make a dramatic TV series interesting viewers must care about the characters on some level, and Heroes has reached that point.
House
Interesting episode, I am interested in the direction they are taking Chase. Although I think there is something larger at work here. The hacking of 13's email and the report that Foreman and Chase needed appearing oh so conveniently make me think that there is someone else doing something in the hospital. I do think they dropped the ball on an interesting tack with the POTW (patient of the week), but lately I wonder if they are putting enough energy into that part of the show. But to follow up my comments on Heroes, I am still interested in the characters on this show, so I want to know what happens next.
NCIS
Skipped these last night, so nothing new on them.
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